There’s a girl I really like and I’m pretty sure she knows because
practically everyone at school knows. I’m good friends with her best friend
and she told me that the girl would like me if we spoke more. Only thing is,
this other guy flirts with her loads and she flirts back and he has
connections with her, i.e. lessons. I have none. So far he’s winning and to
make matters worse I am sort of really shy. And he isn’t. How can I make her
like me? My friend says that the girl I like doesn’t like this guy
(apparantly she told him and they are best friends) but they flirt so much!
It can’t be true.

Thanks for reading this and also I really enjoy and find your site useful,

Harold.

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I met a guy at a party about a week ago that I’m extremely interested in
(which is SO rare!) and whom as far as I can tell is interested in me too,
he meets every criteria you’ve said about men being liking a woman. We’re
still getting to know each other and are planning our third date. We’ve
already had sex and he treats me like his girlfriend in front of his friends
so I think things are looking good for an exclusive relationship. We met on
extremely bad terms; his friend overdosed on alcohol at the party we met at.
I happened to be awake so I tried to save him along with other people after
we noticed he wasn’t breathing. The new guy was passed out already. Because
of this, we’ve gotten to know alot about each other’s character in tough
situations (death, the funeral, deep conversations, emotional support, etc.)

In the last relationship I was in (5 years on and off) I was cheated on ALOT
then became the cheater . I cheated on my ex with 2 mutual friends of ours
(I knew one for years before my ex and he knew the other first). I don’t
want to lie about anything in my past but I don’t want to scare this amazing
guy away.

Also, my best friend of 7 years introduced me to this great new guy. I had
sex with that same best friend 2 months prior to meeting him. This is
another thing I don’t want to lie about but would also not like held against
me. I don’t have feelings beyond friendship for my best friend, it was just
drunken consensual sex between two singles that’s only happened a handful of
times since I’ve known him.

I don’t want to lie because there’s no point starting a relationship on a
foundation of lies, how can I explain things to him without him completely
writing me off as a cheater, homie hopper or slut?

Any advice would be helpful.

Thanks for your time,

Casey

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I recently ended my relationship with my fuck buddy. Seeing as how I’ve
never had a fuck buddy relationship before, and thought I could manage it, I
began to discover that I cannot handle emotionless sex. I was beginning to
have feelings for him, so in an attempt to save myself from getting hurt,
and to be fair to him, I honestly told him that I was beginning to have
feelings for him, that I knew he could not reciprocate my feelings, and
therefore thought it best that we go our separate ways.

Here’s the thing. After breaking things off, he is still contacting me.
Does it mean he could have had feelings for me after all? Why contact
someone who clearly wants more, when you only want one thing?

His actions are truly confusing to me. My heart still beats a little faster
when I get a message from him, but I just ignore them.

What is going on? Why would he do this? Isn’t a fuck buddy relationship
about “Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?”

I already conveyed to him that my milk is not for free.

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I’m hoping you can share some insight on why men don’t want to commit to a
relationship. I’ve been seeing this guy who is 29 years old for almost 5
months. It’s really more of a FB situation. He has made it clear from the
beginning that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship and isn’t
interested in having a girlfriend. When does that thinking change for guys
like that? I mean is it just whenever they’ve decided they have sewn all
their oats? Do they wake up one morning and decide that maybe it is time to
get into something serious? Is it really about when the “right one” comes
along? Does a guy who doesn’t want a commitment ever really change his mind
about it?

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Well, there is this guy, we met a little over a year ago through a mutual
friend, and we began a friends with benefits relationship. I started to like
him but he told me he had messed with another girl, so we stopped talking we
just started talking again and a few weeks ago, we began the friend w/
benefits relationship again. Well I have always liked him, but not sure how
he feels about me…. I mean like earlier it snowed and he rode a mopad just
to see me.. I really need to know if it sounds like it could be more or not,
and if so how could i approach being more? He always comes in and hugs me
and kisses me and kisses me before he leaves… just really confused!

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I was recently thinking about where my blog has headed over the past year or so and realized that it’s developed into something far beyond than what I ever expected. Instead of talking about random shite I like, it has become the go-to blog for dating (and fuck buddy) advice for both women and men. I do still publish posts on things I enjoy and suggestions on how men can imporve their lifestyle into something great, yet my main goal with it is to provide sufficient dating advice for people. So ever since @racheallee (on Twitter) titled me as a modern day “Love Specialist”, I decided to run with it and even though the domain name stays as ShiteILike.com (because I’m not too bright when it comes to changing the url while not losing all of my current links) I decided to instead implement the idea I stole from Kelly Diels from Cleavage, who uses a different blog title from her domain name. As you’ve probably noticed by now, I’ve changed my blog title to “Ask Robby G: Every Question’s Got an Answer” and you can even access the site by typing into your url box askrobbyg.com and you’ll still be able to land on this site. I’ve also got this fucking cool new logo with the broken heart being heeled, which I know you all love and wish you thought of yourself.
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hi rob

i just came across your blog and love it, but felt like i needed some
help.

Here we go i have a bf who lives abroad and i met at work during an
internship some guy that i started to see after i ended up my internship.

we do get along well but i gotta admit i feel attracted to him, we took
this bad habit to email randomly at work everyday and im now always hoping
and waiting for these little pointless emails.

fact is drunk i told him i liked him and i even texted him…

he’s quite older than me and my friends in front of my confusion towards
him because i feel so attracted to him said it was just pointless because he
probably only wanted some potential sex with me and that i was his ego
flattering because im 22 and he is 30.

i have this weird high school girl admiration to him so i dunno….

he asked me if i wanted to go on a week end together.

do u think he sees me as a potential fuck? or friends?
i like to think we are friends but im sure it’s not the case

please help me

thanks

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