Articles Archive for September 2009
Miscellaneous »
I’ve written quite a few guest posts for other blogs and found it very beneficial to get my voice heard through other sources. Now I’d like to share the love and allow other bloggers to get the opportunity to guest post on this blog and get links back to their own webpages. Of course, I have guidelines: It has to be on topic!
When you’re submitting a guest post, make it about something that my readers can benefit from. My readers include people who like hearing about dating advice, general motivational …
Friends with Benefits »
Do you think it’s possible for two friends to decide to be fuck buddies and
maintain the friendship even when the mutual using is over?
I just had a very rational, open, and honest conversation with a friend
about it last night, but I don’t want to lose the friend after our physical
relationship ends–either when one of us finds something else or in about 6
months when I move 500 miles away.
What’s your take?
You can give it a go and see how it goes, because it would be an interesting experiment, but… There’s always …
Miscellaneous »
Update: The prices are going back to normal starting January 1st, 2010.
My blog has been climbing the ranks on a decent pace, but as you may have heard recently my bike has been stolen and I really need as much money as I can get so I decided to lower the prices on all advertisement opportunities. From written reviews I offer to each and every ad space or link opportunity. Check out the new prices in this list and contact me if you like what you see. This is a limited …
Travel Stories »
I went to the Red Light District the other day. No, it wasn’t for the sex… well, at least that time it wasn’t for the sex. I was looking for junkies to buy a bicycle from. Unlucky for me, I only ran into drug dealers dealing coke and E, but no bikes. So I went to a legitimate source and paid 100 euros for decent bike. I’ve been in the city for more than two weeks and walking is just no longer an option. I was happy with my new …
Friends with Benefits »
I meet this bloke about 4 months ago. We have been fuckbuddies ever since.
We text each other most days and he phones me most weekends after a night
out. We both said we didn’t want a relationship as I was happy being single
and he’d just come out of a serious relationship.
The problem is I’ve started to feel more for him which I hadn’t planned to
do and a couple of weeks ago when I was drunk I told him. He was really
honest and said that he wasn’t ready for a relationship even …
Reviews »
Over the past couple of weeks I have been bombarded with school readings about politics and whatnot, but I still managed to get out of the very liberal right-wing propaganda the University of Amsterdam throws at me by getting my head wrapped around a fantastic book (which doesn’t have anything to do with politics) entitled “A Hero of Our Time“ by Mikhail Lermontov. Since I’ve never posted a book review on my own blog, I contacted a friend and he was happy to post the review on his blog. To give …
Travel Stories »
No, I’m not talking about the Jolie movie in this post, but the importance of travel. The song, “The Changeling” by The Doors have lyrics that go like:
I live uptown,
I live downtown,
I had money, and I had none,
But I never been so broke
That I couldn’t leave town
It’s a phenomenal song, or maybe I’m just a huge The Doors fan, but either way, ever since I moved to Amsterdam, I have been wanting to travel as much as possible. I’ve been around Amsterdam, mostly by walking and tram and starting tomorrow by bicycle, …








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