Hi Robby,
I really enjoy reading your blog. I have a friend who became my fuck-buddy
by chance. At first I was fine with it, but little by little I started
developing feelings for him. He got upset because I told some of our friends
and it got back to him, and he stopped coming over, stopped responding to my
messages and completely ignores me in public. When I confronted him, he told
me that we should take it slow. So I ignored him for a while and he came to
me one night and we had …

Dear Robby G,
My story is a bit more complicated.
I am in a relationship with guy no.1.for 2.5 years, but since we don’t
even live in the same country, I don’t know if i can call it
“relationship” at all. Not only because of the distance, and the rare
meetings, but also, because we don’t have sex. This might sound weird, but
all those times we managed to see eachother the sex wasn’t working, he was
too frustrated, did not know how to touch me, finished early, etc. As we got
to know eachother well before we …

Hi Robby, love the site and find the advice really useful.
Anyway, I’ve got a bit of a problem. I like this girl quite a lot and quite
a lot of people know at school that I like her (probably including her!) and
the other day I found out (a long with a lot of others) that one of my best
friends also likes her. He has never gotten off with a girl or anything
before (I have a with a few) and we are both 16. He knows I like her and he
knows I …

So last weekend I went out to a bar with my friends. I sat down beside my
friend and noticed the cute guy beside me. He immediately introduced himself
and we hit it off right away. We had a bunch of mutual friends so I felt
comfortable talking to him. He ended up buying me a couple drinks and we hit
the dance floor. I went home with him that night and it was the best sex
I’ve ever had – completely blew my mind. I knew it was only like this
because he is a …

Hi Robby,
Well this is a long one I am afraid.
Met this guy Dec 2006 we started having sex on a regular basis, we would go
out to the pub together, walk the dogs etc. He would come over 2-3 times
per week, sometimes we’d arrange or sometimes he just turn up. He only
lives up the road from me so we saw quite alot of each other. But we never
discussed what was going on and I didn’t know if there was any commitment or
not, so in March 2008 I went …

I have been seeing this guy as fuck buddy for about a year now. And i liked
him ever since, like i’ve cried over him. But i just can’t say it to him, because
i think he only sees me as just a fuck buddy. And now, he has a girlfriend,
though he didn’t confirm it, but i saw pictures of them on facebook. So
anyway, I want to let him feel that i have feelings for him, by not making a
fool out of myself. Should I do it? how?

So I have this open relationship with this girl. We been messing around for
a couple months. We are also best friends. It started off rough and it was
pretty smooth sailing for a while. Until tonight, where she asks me how i
feel about our situation and her. So i told her that i think everything is
going pretty smooth and that i have love for her as a friend and nothing
else. We both understood that this was never going to get very serious in
the long run. So she then tells …