FuckBook    Hook-Up    Get Laid    Local Sex    Find Sex    Sex Dating    Female Escorts    Call Girls    Escort Agencies    Relationship Advice    Date Married    
Home » Friends with Benefits

Avoid Typical Fuck Buddy Mistakes

3 January 2010 95 Comments

I have been receiving many questions concerning fuck buddies and noticed that there is a pattern of mistakes that people make while in a fuck buddy relationship. Though there is usually a distinct line between a fuck buddy and a boyfriend/girlfriend, many seem to add features into the fuck buddy relationship which blur that division and that is usually when people end up getting hurt. In this post I will assess and describe the essential mistakes that people make and the final aim is to know what common mistakes fuck buddies make in order to avoid them.

Leave the Emotions at the Door

The number one mistake fuck buddies make when they are starting out is that they think that you don’t need any preparation when entering a fuck buddy relationship and that it’s great to have a woman/man to sleep with whenever you’re feeling like having sex. When they enter the relationship, they tend to completely disregard their own emotional state and do not realize how vulnerable they can actually be. You must be shallow when you’re approaching a fuck buddy situation. There is his or her looks that you must care about and whether or not you have a sexual attraction or chemistry towards your partner. All other emotions should be left at the door. There shouldn’t be any love making, just fucking. There shouldn’t be any discussion on “what do you look for in a girlfriend/boyfriend”, just “are you in the mood right now or should I call back another time”. There shouldn’t be any room in your heart for your fuck buddy. Though this seems cold, you must remember that this little mistake of adding an emotional element into the fuck buddy relationship always manifests into something greater and then if your partner isn’t on the same level of emotional attachment as you, it usually ends bad. This brings me to my next point.

It’s Just Sex

Many times people think they can handle having emotionless sex where nothing else but the sex drive is being satisfied, but sometimes after going at it for quite some time, they may get too close to their partner on a level that is beyond the main purpose of fuck buddies, which is sex. Remember, once you’ve slept with the fuck buddy, there is no need to go on dates of any kind except to the bedroom. Prior to becoming fuck Evelyn
buddies, it’s alright to go on dates, because many times you may like to get to know the person before ever sleeping with them. However, once you’ve slept together and you both are satisfied with just having sex without having a full blown relationship, then realize the fact that you must respect those boundaries you have created for yourselves. If you’re still going on dates after you’ve had sex, then you’re in a formal relationship. Dates mean that you enjoy spending time with that person without it having to always lead to the bedroom. And if there’s no sex yet you enjoy their presence, that proves that you like that person, thus you have broken the rule and you have attached emotions into the mix.

One Too Many Times

You must pace yourself with your fuck buddy. How many times a week can you really meet for sex to feel sexually satisfied? The reason you’re in a fuck buddy relationship is to relieve yourself sexually and not have to deal with the perks of a formal relationship. The only thing that calling your fuck buddy too many times to have sex will do is make them feel like you are thinking about them more than you ought to be; that you don’t have any other options to go to for sex; or that there is a possibility you are wanting to take things to the next level. Though you’re just meeting for sex, keep it balanced and don’t overdo it. Seeing your fuck buddy way too often can make you feel dependant on them for any sort of sexual relief. This can make you vulnerable to dependency and that usually leads to emotional attachment. So set some limits to how often you call your fuck buddy for sex. Keep a balance and don’t visit them too often.

Pursue New Opportunities

Having various fuck buddies is a great way to avoid any mistakes. Though you may not have the time for all of them, do not get locked up in just having one fuck buddy. I’ve had three, sometimes four, fuck buddies at the same time. I would usually favour one or two and sleep with them more than the others, but nonetheless I was still open to new opportunities with other women. It may get too hectic sometimes when you have too many girls, because if you don’t have the time for a formal relationship then more than likely you won’t have time for three fuck buddies. However, never close the door on new opportunities. Remember, you are not an exclusive couple and you have the freedom to sleep with other people. So just because you may have one fuck buddy, you shouldn’t stop yourself from hooking up with other people.

Explanations Are Unnecessary

Justifying yourself or feeling like you need to explain yourself to your partner is strictly for formal relationships. People who aren’t used to the idea of fuck buddies continue making the same mistake. They are so used to explaining themselves to their partners that if they go ahead and do something that would make their girlfriend/boyfriend jealous, then they incorporate that logic into their fuck buddy relationship. If your fuck buddy is questioning you about things then there is a problem. Also, you shouldn’t question your fuck buddy if they are sleeping around or if they are doing things you don’t approve of. They are free bodies and you have no rights over them. They have their complete freedom and there is no need for them to take you into account when they make decisions that concern themselves. It may sound selfish, but that is why fuck buddies are fuck buddies and not a girlfriend/boyfriend type couple.

I’m not trying to discourage people who would like to have a formal relationship with emotions and love, but only explaining the mistakes that people make once they agree to a fuck buddy relationship. And when one of the fuck buddies thinks their relationship is strictly sexual while the other believes they can handle it and don’t prepare themselves for it, then things tend to end on a bad note. It has happened to me where the fuck buddy arrangements were in place and we only met for sex, and though the woman knew what was going on, she allowed herself to get too close and that ended up with her getting really hurt. Of course, she blamed me, but I’m not in it to hurt anyone’s feelings. When the two of us are clear on the fact that we’re just interested in having sex each other without any other strings attached, then both should respect that fact and not have to make a big deal when one continues to see it as only a fuck buddy relationship while the other makes the mistakes mentioned above and treat the situation like there is something more to it than the sex.

Be my Facebook mate here, or Follow me on Twitter.

95 Comments »

  • Kisha said:

    I love you take on the whole “fuck buddy” situation. I have had one for the past 20 years and it’s great. We are friends first and then fb’s. It’s never been a problem for either one of us. We live 2 states away from each other and still hook-up when we see each other. The best of both worlds. Keep it up.
    .-= Kisha´s last blog ..2009 in Review =-.

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Kisha: That sounds like quite an arrangement you’ve got going. It seems perfect because he’s in a different state and you don’t get too deeply involved due to the distance. Thanks for the support. I’ll keep writing as long as people keep reading, that’s my arrangement with my readers :)

    Reply to Comment

  • Flowrdian said:

    Ok so your off your rocker bro girls need emotional attachment to feel good about them selves in a f/b relationship.
    I might jus be on my iPhone doing this but fo-real every body wants to feel good about themselves but they want to leave the drama at the door not the emotional attachment. That why we have f/b’s to feel good about ourselves we as human beings need to be comforted by others your f/b mistakes are jus some way of expressing your feelings and can’t be taken seriously or with any meaning of respect…… It’s a bunny
    (\_/)
    (x.x)
    (UU)o

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Flowrdian: It may be that some people look for different things in a f/b relationship, because if someone is emotionally stable and doesn’t feel the necessity to get attached yet require sex once in a while, they get themselves a f/b rather than boyfriend/girlfriend. I know what you’re saying with girls needing emotional attachment, and I’ve had girls who said they were okay with just being fuck buddies when in reality they wanted more than that. But more times than not I’ve had girls who were happy without any emotional attachment, just an occasional fuck–and that’s a true f/b.

    Thanks for the bunny. Cheers!

    Reply to Comment

    Flowrdian Reply:

    Your right my bad for fussing you your on the topshelf advice.

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Flowrdian: Bah, no worries, I love hearing people’s opinions. All the best, mate.

    Reply to Comment

    Flowrdian Reply:

    Could u email me I would like to convo more often directly……… emptygunn@gmail.com if it’s cool with you btw I’ve been doing this the whole time on my fone…

    Reply to Comment

    lol Reply:

    FAGGGGGGG

  • Muks said:

    Really liked reading your post!

    Reply to Comment

  • Candy cane said:

    What if u and ur fb have an agreement? As in if either of us hook up with anyone else we tell each other because of the fact that we have unprotected sex? My fb and I agreedto do that and he lied to me.I feel I have a right to mad. He told methe onlyreason we wouldn’t get to be in a formal relationship is becuz he says I’m too sneaky. I really started to like this guy, and he said he was starting to like me too. I’m so sad right now I caughthim with the girl and he lied straight to my face. Is it wrong thati feel this way?

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Candy cane: In this case you definitely have the right to be mad, because you had an agreement and he deceived you. In times of an agreement, you expect certain things from your fuck buddy and if breaks that agreement than you cannot trust him to be honest again. So you should be mad, because he should have told you that he didn’t want the agreement you had in the beginning. And beyond that, you’re taking a risk by having unprotected sex, so you surely have the right to know if the girls he’s sleeping with on the side don’t have anything you can contract.

    Reply to Comment

  • Jay Cee said:

    I’m in a fb relationship with my neighbor! When we first started doing things I was unaware that he still saw his ex-girlfriend on the side. When he told me we laid down some ground rules and what our expectations were for the relationship. He would take me out on dates for about a month and a half before we actually had sex. The sex is great, and I really enjoy it. However, I feel like he does spend more time with his ex than me. It doesn’t make me jealous and it wouldn’t be a problem except whenever I’m down to have sex he is usually too tired and it always has to be on his time. I think that comes from him not managing his time well. I’m almost always shut down when I want to have sex, and we really only do it when he wants it. Do you think this is a fair fuck buddy relationship?

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Jay Cee: They truth is, it is sort of odd that you pressed on a fuck buddy relationship yet you went out for a month and a half before you actually had sex. However, now that you are fuck buddies and he is sleeping with his ex-girlfriend and barely has time for you, it is definitely unfair. This fuck buddy relationship is unhealthy because you are there for him whenever he wants to sleep with you, but when you want any, he may be too tired just because he is sleeping with his ex more than with you. I think you should reassess your needs and look for someone who is more caring of your needs than your current fuck-buddy. So for the time being stay with him, but you should surely keep your options open and find someone that cares for your needs more, and then once you find someone new, then break it off with this one who clearly cares about his needs much more than yours.

    Reply to Comment

  • Newbie said:

    hi,
    so i met this guy through a friend and ever since we met we have been flirting. he would text me every single day, and we would talk till 3 am. monday he picked me up from school, and took me all the way to hollywood to his friends house because that was the only empty house he knew of, and we fucked…3 times. he texted me later that day asking me how it was and that he wanted to do it again soon. …now he wont text me at all…. what the hell? what does this mean?

    Reply to Comment

    wounded Reply:

    It means that he’s an older guy I’m guessing? And when it comes to older guys, older girls are harder to get when you just want sex and you really can’t be botherd to commit to a relationship when the only thing on your mind is sex, a friend of mine did exactly the same thing, chatted to her, had sex with her, he said he would have done it again but he knows she would get to emotionally involved, so it seems like in both situations the guy was trying to do you a favor, aside from usuing you as a fuck, harsh I know, but now you can learn from this lesson and try not to make it so easy next time, no matter how much you think he likes you, if your easy he knows he doesn’t need to put effort in to impress you, learn from your mistake :)

    Reply to Comment

  • sarah said:

    hi,

    me and my friend became “fuck buddies” it started a few months back, we never actually stated how we felt before we started. we would enjoy spending time with each other and it did not always end up in the bedroom, we also both spent time with each others famlies, we relaise now that was a mistake, as i started to have feelings for him and thought he may want something more serious.
    as it turns out he doesn’t and a few weeks back we both decided maybe its best if we stay just friends.
    but he has been texting and talking like he wants it to be how it was again.
    i realise were i stand with him this time around, and i do still want him as a fb, but scared incase i can’t cope and start feeling the way i did, but at the same time i’m not sure i want a serious relationship at the moment, do u think that if we state some rules and both agree to them, it could work?

    Reply to Comment

  • Chi said:

    I had a F/B for 2 yrs. until 2 months ago. Known him for 10 yrs. we play the same sports & know the same people. I got with him because I was lonely after my 10 yr. real relationship fell apart. My f/b is a player, many of the women I knew & he got one pregnant 7 yrs ago. We used a condom in the beginning then stopped cause the condom kept coming off inside me, so I started using the sponge for a while. I decided not to see him anymore because we argued all the time, the only time we weren’t arguing is when we’re having sex. He says No matter how much we argue you always come back. I knew he was having sex with other women & it didn’t bother me cause I had another f/b for almost 20 yrs (on & off).

    Well, 2 months ago I found out I was pregnant (he always cums inside me) with twins & told him I’m having an abortion, he said let him know when I’m going. Then he was calling wanting sex, I ignored him, I couldn’t deal with becoming pregnant. After the procedure, I said if you want to continue having raw sex with me you have to use a condom with other women OR I will still see you & we use a condom. He agreed we do it raw. I had sex with him 3 wks later & he says during sex, “Why do I like his d**k so much?” & I couldn’t answer him, then he says, “Were you going to leave this d**k?” I didn’t hear him, he repeated & I said, “no”, he says, “Are you ever going to leave this d**k?” I looked at him & said softly & lovingly, “no”. Well, a couple of days later I found out he had sex with my friend’s sister without a condom. I told my friend & she told her sister that he was seeing a girl. Now my ex- f/b calls me a rat since I told my friend.

    I would like to know if he misses me or thinking of me because I miss him very much. I know we won’t be f/b’s anymore but would like to know if f/b’s have feelings for one another.

    Reply to Comment

    lexy Reply:

    no he is not missing you. the only time he misses you is when he misses your lil sister! he is a scumbag! i know its hard to let go but you must! plus when he ask you when will you leave his d*ck, it kinda indicates he wants out in this relationship. ive been there… i know. good luck tho. and twins!?!? i woulda kept it.

    Reply to Comment

  • Sara said:

    I have a FWB.
    I am in a relationship with a girl ( im also a girl ) I only date women but this is the only guy I have crushed on for many many years.
    I don’t want a relationship with him, it is just sexual chemistry for me,
    why is it so hard to think that a woman can have a FWB without any ‘love’ feelings involved. I will not leave my girlfriend nor will I want anything other than FWB with this guy, he is great fun and the sex is great!!
    I wish people would not generalise and think every girl with grow attached to their FWB. I feel it is definitely down to the people involved. don’t tar all of us girls with the same brush.

    I don’t sleep with any other guy or girl , they both satisfy me.
    ( the guy knows about the girl but the girl does not know )

    I think the main thing to consider is don’t treat the guy as a bf, he is JUST a friend who you enjoy on occasion, you don’t need to know about his whereabouts or call him everyday.
    live your own life and just enjoy it however long it lasts.
    DONT expect anything else from him- you wont get it!

    Reply to Comment

    Emma Reply:

    So great to hear other girls who can enjoy fwb/fb!
    I am single after being married (with him for 7yrs total) and have been single 4 years. I have been sleeping with guys casually since i left my ex. Currently sleeping with two guys, one of whom is married and one is also singe.
    Been sleeping with the married guy for 2years now!! Best 2 years of my life.
    We chat most days, but only meet up occasionally for mind blowing sex. It is the most passionate and emotionally satisfying few hours ive ever known, then he leaves and thats it. Our chatting is purely on a friendship level – not even any dirty talk!
    After two years i started over analysing the fwb relationship, and made the mistake of telling him that it had been on my mind a bit… however i realised that what i was feeling was purely based on commercial pressures and i had no serious feelings for the guy other than a good friendship, we talked about it and agreed our friendship was more valuable than the sex and proceeded to make a date for our next hookup… LOL

    Reply to Comment

  • rita said:

    I been into a f/b relationship for the last 5 years…I know hime for the last 10 years…I really need to stop and I tell him all the time but evrytime I see him we always end up hooking up. It was easier when he used to live in another state but since he moved back its been hard. I have mixed feelings bout him and Im pretty sure he has too eventhough he denies it. He always questioning me bout evryone else that I see or I have caught him going thru my phone. When we fight, it gets ugly but a day late he always calls me back. I know this is not healthy but I don’t know how to make it stop…so confused!

    Reply to Comment

  • Edward said:

    Damn!!! I think I’ve screw things up… I was seeing this guy I met on-line and we were happy just fucking, I thought I was good with FB terms, but I kinda mix other things… dammit! I should have read this before ¬¬… now he says he don’t want to fuck anymore because he likes my friendship… I told him that I like him too, and been fiends with benefits would be ok, but he says sex would complicate things and he doesn’t want a serious relationship…
    How do I tell him that I don’t want his friendship without the benefits? or that I want to be just Fuck buddies again?…
    Shit! Why did I invite him to dinner??? …stupid…stupid…stupid!!!

    Reply to Comment

  • Elizabeth said:

    So, I find myself interestingly and unexpectedly in a “FB” relationship. I’m a very hot :) and very unhappily married 32 yr. old woman. We have a small child together and that’s why I’ve forced myself to try to work things out in my marriage for the last several years. Hubby and I have not really had sex in around 2-years now (he has some serious’issues’ – both psychologically and sexually). Sex is a need for me and it’s really been more than I can handle.

    I didn’t ‘look’ for anyone, but, one night out with a girlfriend I was approached by an exceptionally handsome and charming guy of only 22 yrs old. We hit it off instantly and spent the night talking, dancing, making out. Went back to his place and messed around that nite – told him ‘I’m in a relationship’. Didn’t have sex that night although it was obviously clear that we were both dying to!

    To make a long story short – he texted me and persistently asked me out until I agreed to see him again. Had a great ’1st-date’ – told him I was ‘unhappily married’. He said he appreciated the honesty and we did have incredible sex that night. That was over 2 months ago and we’ve been getting together around 2-3 times a week every since.

    Having some ‘issues’ though. Initially upon learning how unhappy my marriage is and that I plan to divorce he told me that I should not get ‘attached’ to him. That he would be a bad person to get attached to.

    Agreed – thus a FB relationship was formed? But…we go out on long dates before each sex session. He has introduced me to all of his friends – they’re all aware of our ‘relationship’. I spend the night at his house frequently and we’ve even talked about going out of town together. We also have a great time out of the bedroom – talking, laughing, etc., etc. When I spend the night – we usually go at it all night and numerous times the next morning, into the afternoon or as long as I can stay for.

    Also, what exactly constitutes “F-ing” vs making love? We kiss passionately during sex and snuggle after too (sometimes all night).

    As you might imagine, I am developing some issues with the relationship now – I think about him frequently throughout the day and look forward to my time with him.

    A couple of additional worries – I’m using an IUD. He said that I’m only the 2nd person that he’s slept with without a condom – ever. We don’t use anything, but, I’ve ?ed him frequently as to whether or not he’s slept with anyone else since we’ve been together because of concerns for my personal safety. He said that he would never sleep with anyone else w/o protection, but, he avoids my ?s like the plague. I know what I’m doing is probably not very wise and I am becoming more uncomfortable with this aspect of our relationship, but, let’s face it – once you’re used to having sex with someone w/o a condom it’s hard to go back. As women, it’s a completely different feel for us w/o one as well.

    He just graduated from college, landed an awesome job in another State, but, he doesn’t start working for several months and will be in and out of town frequently – still wanting to get together when he’s here. He’s also mentioned continuing to get together even after he’s taken the new job. But, he has not been contacting me/texting me like usual in the few days since his move. I feel let-down by that, but, I’m hoping that he will once he’s planning on coming back into town. The relationship feels unfair in this aspect – I don’t like feeling like I’m ‘waiting around for him’.

    I know he does not want a commitment. I really like him and love having sex with him and I don’t want to give him up, but, I’m concerned that I like him a bit ‘too much’ and concerned about my emotional vulnerability due to my situation, etc.

    Bottom line is – I think you’re off here because as I told him recently: “I’m not getting attached or anything, don’t get me wrong, but, if you continue to see someone and have sex with that person over and over feelings are bound to develop.” His response, “are you kidding, you are already so attached to me.” He also acted pleased about that and laughed. I made a face and didn’t say anything. I’m not sure what that was all about? Maybe he’s too young to realize that my ‘getting attached’ would probably not be in my best interest given the situation.

    Sorry for long comment – very curious to hear your take on all of this as a guy. Any advice – appreciated. Shoot! :)

    Thanks!

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Elizabeth: Having been in a relationship with an older married woman myself, I have to say that if you end up spending enough time together, you do begin feeling more emotions than you may want to, and I can easily say she also fell in love with me. I understand where the 22 yr old is coming from, because though he’s surely involved with you, he may not be sure where this relationship is heading. My own relationship ended without either of our desires really, but we realized the age difference has too much of a bearing on things not working out along with some other reasons. I know you know this, but as you said he’s not willing to commit and he’s much younger. I agree that you waiting for him while he’s in another State is unfair, but he’s also probably focusing on forming his life the way he sees fit. The question is however, does he see you in his future or not. That’s what’s significant, in my opinion. Because if you continue to sleep with him and hope things will just one day fall into place, you’re willfully blinding yourself from the true issue. You should take the bull by its horns, so to speak, and face the issue head on. It’s difficult but it has to be done. Because the longer you wait the harder it will become to separate from him.
    I’d love to continue this discussion if you want, so I’m interested to hear your thoughts.

    Reply to Comment

    Elizabeth Reply:

    Thanks for the thoughtful response, Robby.

    This is a good subject for your site actually because I do think that you’re dealing with an entirely different set of rules if your ‘FB’ is married. Women in unsatisfying marriages will seek fulfillment elsewhere – and a large percentage of this desire for me is totally sexual, but, I guess I’m also partially wanting intimacy/an emotional connection because I don’t receive that from my husband either.

    Another issue is that for me to continue this sort of relationship with him – I have to justify doing so within myself. I’m risking a lot by making time to see him and he is fully aware of this. My husband could become suspicious of my whereabouts, someone could spot us out together, etc., etc. I do want and plan to divorce (soon) – but, any evidence of this surfacing would certainly hinder that process for me and I could lose a great deal financially, etc. So, I would never be seeing/sleeping with someone unless it really felt ‘worth it’ – worth the risk for me.

    With that said, it has been mostly worth it because I love being with him – both in and out of the bedroom (especially in though). :)

    I know that he does not want a commitment (not from me or anyone else right now I think) and that is okay. I have no plans of ever attempting to push him into a committed relationship with me, but, I guess I do want a bit more from him than I am currently receiving.

    Ever since I told him about my little boy (which was only after the 2nd time we slept together) – his attitude towards me changed drastically. He said that he still wanted to see me, but, he started treating me differently – a bit less interested/less pursuant. Hated that. :(

    I’ve explained to him that I feel that I could not/do not want to pursue anything else on the side with anyone else (up till now my time with him has already been quite a lot to juggle), and, this is my first and will be my last affair during the 5 years that I’ve been married. Even though I clearly have no feelings left for my husband – I don’t feel great about what I’m doing. I have told him that I don’t have sex with my husband. He has said on several occasions that ‘he finds that very hard to believe’. So, I’ve tried to make him understand that I’m looking towards him to meet my sexual needs, but, I’m not expecting a monogamous relationship from him – not now, or, in the future. Given his age, etc., I’m fully aware that he wants to play and that’s ok.

    He has told me that he has a ‘commitment phobia’ha.ha. and he managed to go through 4 years of college at a very popular university without having even 1 serious, long-term girlfriend.

    I told him that I think that this situation with me is perfect for him and I’ve tried to explain to him that in order for me to continue I need to feel a bit more appreciated, but, I’m not getting the response I want from him.

    He is sometimes very slow to respond to my texts. Most recently he’ll text me, asking me to ‘come-over’ to wherever he is. It’s hard for me to do that – I’ve told him that I really need to make plans in order to spend time with him.

    Now he’s going to be in and out of town and ‘crashing at friend’s houses’ when he’s here in town. I guess I’m not sure how I can see our relationship going from this point forward.

    All I’d like from him is a ‘commitment’ to continue seeing me as often as he can, to return my texts promptly, be more accessible/open to making plans to go out of town with me, and, take the time/make the effort to make plans with me. I think this is an ideal situation for him that I’m sure that many men would love to be in! – I know he enjoys being with me, but, I think I’ve been too sweet/too easily accessible for him perhaps. Too available?

    I know he’s interested/that he wants to be with me, but, he’s currently having everything on his terms and that is not working for me.

    I know he’s never had this sort of relationship before and I’m not sure that he really knows how to handle it. I definitely think that he believes that he can have everything on his terms with us by this point and that is selfish behavior that I don’t appreciate.

    So I want to explain my wants and needs to him without appearing overbearing because I don’t want to scare him off – I obviously do really enjoy my time with him. Then again, I will have to stop seeing him entirely if I can’t get the relationship to work for me.

    I’m considering blowing him off for a while when he does finally contact me next to find out how persistent he might be. Maybe if he lacks persistence – that would be a good time to end it. My marriage is dissatisfying enough. As much as I like him, there’s no room for another dissatisfying experience in my life.

    Do you think there is a better way to go about getting this relationship to work for me? What’s a good approach?
    How do you get your FB to work for you?! ha.ha. :)

    Reply to Comment

    carol Reply:

    Elizabeth,

    I am in a similar situation or roller coaster ride that you are in. I have been married 3 years and my marriage lacks intimacy. I didn’t mean to get in a FB situation with someone but it just happened. Its been about 9 months now. He is a cute and successful guy and we are both in our 30′s. He has a girlfriend and he recently had her move in. We don’t see each other in a intimate way as much because of both of our living situations. We see each other at bars or maybe his office.

    I made a huge mistake and started to care for him. We have an amazing time when we are together and it is not just sex. I have expressed my feelings for him and it always scares him off. The thing is that he always comes back into my life. We had a talk last week and I asked him what he wants from me??? He said he is super attracted to me and thinks about being with me a lot. He doesn’t want to ruin my marriage or his relationship with his girlfriend. He said we picked the people we are with for a reason. Basically saying to me that he wants to be in a relationship with his girlfriend not me. I don’t want a relationship with him but I know that’s what he thinks. He still wants to see me sometimes. Basically have his cake and eat it too.

    I was interested in a fun side affair but my FB guy isn’t very attentive at times. Similar to you Elizabeth it takes him forever to text back and he doesn’t always call when he says he will. I go out of my way to see him and he doesn’t do that for me. So I had to realize that he doesn’t really care about me. It hurts and leaves me empty inside. It hard to let him go and I think its hard for him to let me go. I believe we have so what of attachment to each other but its different for both of us. I been reading a lot of people’s situations to get some clarity on mine.

    I don’t want to end my marriage and this whole thing has got me thinking… People enter our lives for reason and they leave for a reasons. I appreciated this guy telling me what he wants and I have to choose where to take it. I think the healthiest thing to do is let it end or just stop putting too much thought into it.

    Elizabeth- There are people who have FB relationship for years because they don’t expect much. If you put pressure on this guy it will surely end. I know its hard because you want him more but he isn’t feeling the same way. So if this is affecting you life in a negative way…its time to move on. If you don’t want to move on just try to be more like your guy for a month. You may see him being more attentive with you because he afraid to lose you.

    Reply to Comment

    elizabeth Reply:

    Hi Carol,

    Thank you so much for this advice. I know that you’re right. Being in a marriage that lacks intimacy (emotional and/or emotional and physical – like mine) must be the loneliest place to be! It’s excruciatingly lonely because ‘I’m stuck’ and I can’t openly date other people, or, pursue a real life outside of my marriage like I’d like to be doing.

    I definitely think that married women are especially susceptible to forming an emotional attachment with a FB because of our situations. I’ve been married for almost 5-years and I AM ready to move on. I should accept this relationship with him for what it has been – it has been somewhat of a boost to my self-esteem in many ways, a definite boost to my libido, and, it helped me to get through the holidays which I think would have been very painful/difficult for me since my husband was off for 2-weeks and I can’t stand spending time with him – had I not had something special with him to look forward to with my younger friend, – I think that time would have felt a lot worse than it did for me.

    Part of me wants to say that the age difference with us shouldn’t be a factor, but, it clearly is. My relationship with him is reminding me of a few relationships I carried on myself when I was in my early twenties – we are just in such different places. He doesn’t seem to be grasping that it’s ok – preferable really, to be friends AND lovers. That is what I have been pushing for with him, but, I’m not quite getting there. I would be fine with having an open relationship with him indefinitely, but, I’d like to feel more free about expressing my emotional and physical needs to him without having to worry about potentially scaring him off.

    I’ve noticed that if I take a step forward – he takes a step back and when I take a step back he takes a step forward. It’s ridiculous and exhausting. I need to focus on myself, my child, and my divorce. I am putting my ‘relationship’ with him on the back-burner – once and for all.

    BTW – this is an interesting site but I don’t agree with Robby. :) Most women can NOT have sex with someone for any extended period of time without developing feelings. Men are wired very differently than we are this way.

    I’m sorry, Carol, I don’t think that your marriage sounds completely healthy. I’m sure that your affair, like mine, is only a manifestation of you trying to compensate for what is missing within your marriage. I’m sure you are a beautiful woman (inside and out) and you deserve the complete package (as do I). Hope you don’t mind that I’m going to suggest that you seek marriage counseling regarding the lack of intimacy in your marriage. I think that your wanting to maintain your marriage, however, does mean that there are still strong possibilities of turning it around. I’m also going to suggest that you never tell him about your affair – not ever, for obvious reasons.

    I think that the person you are sleeping with is very attracted to you, but yes, he definitely wants to have his cake and eat it too. The fact that yours is a workplace romance makes the possibility of your getting caught a lot more probable. Be careful.

    As for me, at the 3-year point I still wanted to try to work on my marriage, but, now, at the 5-year point I’ve come to terms with the fact that it’s hopeless. There is nothing that I find fun or attractive about him anymore. Nothing. I can hardly stand to be in his company.

    As for my younger guy, I do still want and plan to see him, but, I’m going to just back off and lower my expectations significantly. I might even make excuses to not have sex with him the next time we get together. It would be interesting to see how he might react to that. He always brings me around his friends – he’s 22 years old and likes to have fun. It is a great escape for me. I think it would be even if I were not married. I just need to try to take it for what it is. If you can figure out a way to do the same with your relationship then go for it, but, I think your ‘FB relationship’ is truly just a manifestation of your discontentment within your marriage which you should try to face and work through.

    Good Luck, Carol!

    And thanks again for the great advice.

    By the way, a recommended read for you: Women Who Run with the Wolves by Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estes. She is brilliant and her work changed my life. (can’t you tell). LOL! Good luck! :)

    Reply to Comment

  • Seperated said:

    I am seperated but will be divorced within month. I met a guy who seemed like a player so suggested that we be fb. We did last weds and he was already asking when we could get togethrr again. Then he cancelled and said next day & then cudnt. Sex was great but i think i scared him off keep asking when? How can i make it happen?

    Reply to Comment

  • Seperated said:

    I am seperated but will be divorced within month. I met a guy who seemed like a player so suggested that we be fb. We did last weds and he was already asking when we could get togethrr again. Then he cancelled and said next day & then cudnt. Sex was great but i think i scared him off keep asking when? How can i make it happen? Or shud i get a 2nd?

    Reply to Comment

  • Horny_Lisa said:

    I dated a guy for two years and I was pretty much broken when we broke up. About a month later he called and asked to see me. I was still in love with him and said yes and although on my side it wasn’t planned, we ended up having amazing sex. After that I left and wasn’t sure how I felt about him or how he felt about me.

    So I started dating a new guy and having sex with him wasn’t as good or as frequent as it was with my ex. One night I got drunk and because my ex and I were on speaking terms, I told him to come over. He did and once again we had sex the whole night and it was really good. This was four months after we broke up but it got pretty emotional for both of us.we decided it was better for both of us if we didn’t date again which was hard cos I was so in love with him still.

    Now like two days ago we randomly started talking again and there wasn’t any awkwardness but sooooo much sexual tension. The physical part of our relationship was never the problem, its the emotions tht lead to us breaking up. I don’t have any emotional feelings for him anymore but I’m so attracted to him its crazy. He feels the same and he suggested we become fuck buddies since we kind of already were.this is the hard part. I don’t know if having my ex as a fuck buddy is a good idea. I dnt have feelings for him anymore but I’m afraid I might fall for him again because he’s who he is. I’m horny as hell and have sex on offer but I’m afraid. Help me pleeeeeez

    Reply to Comment

  • bucket said:

    I like this article.

    Now, I fully understand everything, that am just a fuck-buddy and the reason why I feel hurt sometimes is because I have involved too much emotions on it.

    I realized how much my FB was following these rules. I, on the other side, wanted to take it a little bit further.

    Sigh.. Now, I don’t even know how to take out all these emotions I’m feeling for him coz’ I know he will never feel the same.

    Reply to Comment

  • MsSugaWallz said:

    Ladies,Ladies,Ladies…..

    The situation is what it is. Take it for that. In my opinion, men are very simple and primal individuals. If a man says that only want you to be their “fuck buddy” then that’s where it begins and ends. That’s it. If you want more, it’s not likely to have a favorable ending for you. It’s absolutely amazing that a large portion of these comments of unrequited love or emotional attachment are from women. I am and have a “fuck buddy,” I never initiate contact with him, he has never been to my home and he pays for the hotel room…I eat before I get there ;)Yes the sex is amazing,slow and sensual.,BUT it is still just sex. He wants me to lay on his arm afterward and stay,but I always set the alarm on my phone to 4 a.m. Afterall, I have a class in a few hours. :*

    Reply to Comment

  • Mackenzie said:

    Hi there,

    So, I had an unofficial FB relationship with a guy I went to HS with. We are 34 y/old now. But whenever he’d come into town, we’d hook up. It was fun & he was considerate, engaging & sexy.

    However, the last few times we met up, he’d ask about my sister. He asked about her enough times that I asked if he wanted her ph number. So, I called her & asked if I could give out her number.

    I feel weird & kinda betrayed about the whole thing. But I didn’t want to be a jealous cock-block. Thoughts?

    Reply to Comment

    kristen Reply:

    Your an idiot! You just gave him ur sister number! Unless you think they you think he will ask her for her thought in marrying you. But that would be the parents, that’s really weird and annoying especially being your sister. Like you guys are having sex and he is thinking about your sister, wtf. Jerk off…

    Reply to Comment

    kristen Reply:

    Your an idiot! You just gave him ur sister number! Unless you think they you think he will ask her for her thought in marrying you. But that would be the parents, that’s really weird and annoying especially being your sister. Like you guys are having sex and he is thinking about your sister, wtf. Jerk off…not you obviously

    Reply to Comment

    Scot Reply:

    You didn’t want to feel jealous so you gave him your sister’s number so he can hook up with her. Nicely played by him, now he a good story for all his buddies how he dropping a load in 2 sisters, neither of which is a gf.
    Basically he owes you nothing, he has no obligation or commitment to you..you are just an F-buddy, and I don’t see how can you feel betrayed, he is a free agent plus you helped to put him in contact with her.

    Reply to Comment

  • bubukitty said:

    I enjoyed reading this! Great advice! My ex and I were together for 2 years. It has been 2 years since and we started talking again and have been FB’s for the last month. It started great, then old feelings surfaced because it’s more that just sex now. We act together with each other but not around other people and are free to have other FB’s. He says he wants to be with me but not yet because he wants to f*ck other people and ‘didn’t get the chance’… Fair enough but the way he is going about it really bothers me and I don’t know what to do! He chats to other girls right in front of me like I’m not there. When I ask to see him he says “I don’t know” because he doesn’t want one of the young girls he is trying to get with to call him to hang while he is with me and wants to keep his night open. He is 24, I am 22. And the 3 girls he is trying to get with are 17!!!

    Maybe I’m just jealous. And don’t want to wait while he ignores me. I’m thinking about letting him go because I don’t want to deal with this bullsh*t anymore. Emotion’s f*ck everything up. bottom line

    Reply to Comment

    kristen Reply:

    No if he had the common decency to not be picking up other 17 year olds in front of you, than deserve better. Your letting him go fuck other ppl, cuz he didn’t get the chance to use his dick earlier in life? Go find a few guys and make his head explode than dump his ass

    Reply to Comment

    bubukitty Reply:

    haha thanks! a friend of mine told me the same thing! I love him but not what he is doing… sometimes you just have to let people go.

    Reply to Comment

    Danielle Reply:

    Dear bubukitty,
    I know this is several months ago and I know you might not read this, but I was kinda in the same situation as those 17 year old girls (and that ex-boyfriend of yours).
    You see, seven months ago, on August 1, 2011, I met this guy at a concert I was working at. We had a great first date on the 19th of that month, and we started seeing each other after that. At the time, I was 17 and he was 23. I know, I know. It was bad. He ended up taking my virginity actually…
    So, as the months moved on, I started having some feelings for him. I didn’t have much to any at the beginning, which I felt great about actually. But come around January of 2012, I felt like the sex was different–more passionate and more like love making.
    I just turned 18 on March 4th (a sunday) and I saw him on March 9th (a friday) and it was the most awkward thing ever. We ended up breaking it off on the train that day actually. I think my age really started getting to him. He is turning 24 next month, so I felt like maybe it was for the better. So the break up was mutual.

    We weren’t dating or anything. Sometimes I wish we would of been, but we were just fuck buddies.
    Of course we never defined our relationship until the day it ended on the train ride. So ladies, ALWAYS define what your relationship status is!

    But anyways, he said he is going to be MIA for a little while–for a few weeks, maybe a month, maybe more. So that’s when I asked him if we could be friends..so yeah. That’s it.

    I agree. Sometimes you just have to let people go.

    Reply to Comment

  • bubukitty said:

    PS any advice on that ^ would be greatly appreciated. I’m so frustrated! Thank youu

    Reply to Comment

  • CrysTrouble said:

    So really a ‘fuck buddy’ is someone to stupid to charge u for sex?
    A whore- not even a prostitute bc at least they get paid.
    And if that person is fucking u with no strings attached then aren’t they fucking everyone else too? and that is what u want to put up agianst ur body?
    The whole concept is nasty. I’m sooooo glad I am still a virgin and so glad I decided to wait for marriage. If a potential partner even has ‘extensive experience’ its a turn off. It does absolutley nothing for me to know that the potential partner lives like a mongrel dog.

    Reply to Comment

    Mackenzie Reply:

    Crys Trouble…you got the right idea honey! Good for u! Stay strong.

    Reply to Comment

    Scot Reply:

    You got it. Look there is nothing wrong with FWB, but I find a lot of times what women call FWB is really no more than F-Buddies. No hanging out as friends, it just sex when he wants. A number of guys I know have multiple FBs and in most cases the women know it. Its a good time to be a good looking playa. I see nearly all the question posts here are from women. If the women here know they are not the only ones on their knees for the guy and it very likely wont end up with them getting GF status, then its fine, both parties are getting what they want. More and more guys even if they are not hot stuff, want in the no strings attached times these days though.

    Reply to Comment

  • Lynn said:

    this guy i know lives 2 streets dwn from me i liked him as a boyfriend @ 1st but he only wants me to b his friend but everytime he c me walkn he wants me 2 come to his house hmmmmmmmm ? and said i could but his room is a mess now tell me if that wasn’t a sign he would wanna have sex with me which i don’t mind he already got a older woman pregnant but i don’t care bcuz she was just a fuck buddy he’s defintley a playboy !!!!!!!!

    Reply to Comment

  • Samantha said:

    Hi,

    My name is Samantha I am 20 years old and I am currently in a very confusing situation that I’ve been stuck in for the past year and 4 months. I met this guy when I was in high school that I had always been physically attracted to. We had the same group of friends hung out at the same places. One day at a friends house we just started to talk, by the end of the night he had asked for my number. From that moment on we were always texting we would hang out all the time, We were like this for quite some time. We even would have sex but it never affected the way we would act around one another. We still kept talking and hanging out like we always did. He eventually asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no being that it wasn’t so long ago that I had come out of a 5 Year relationship I didn’t feel like I was ready to be committed to someone again. Time went on and nothing changed we continued to act the same with one another. Until it eventually turned in a FB relationship. Before he would show more interest we would go out together to different places he wouldn’t care to bring me around his friends. But I eventually turned into a big secret in front of our group of friends we acted like we didn’t even talk. He stopped taking me out to places and stopped bringing me around his friends all together. but behind closed doors nothing ever changed between us, we still had and still do have pationate sex, we cuddle after sex we have an amazing time with one another always laughing and having fun. As time passed I started to get really attached to him and really start too like him a little too much. When I have brought up the subject of us trying to be how we used to be and maybe try to establish a formal relationship

    Reply to Comment

  • Confused said:

    Thanks for your blog, it really helped clear up a lot. But I need your help on an issue. The thing is I am a virgin; I’ve had relationships where I thought – ‘okay, he’s the one’. But then these guys turn around and become complete pigs. My recent ex broke up with me over the phone (ouch) and that’s when I thought – ‘f*** this, I just want to know what it feels like to be intimate with someone’ and since the guys I’ve dated did not match up to my expectations, I decided to go online and meet men. So, I sign up on this website and I’m soon contacted by this guy who clearly states that he just wants someone to have regular fun with (FB), so we meet up and we find out that we are perfectly okay with each other.

    While out having drinks (the meet-up) we decided that we would have a non-exclusive arrangement where we could have sex with each other and other people. I am totally fine with that. Then he doesn’t text for days on end so I thought – ‘maybe he didn’t like what he saw after all’ and I decided to forget about him.

    Two weeks later, he finally texts with all these naughty things he would like to do to me, some of them I’m not totally comfortable with (like a**l) and when I try to tell him that I wouldn’t like that, he still goes ahead and suggest them. Then he comes up with the idea for me to lose my virginity in a threesome with him and another of his FBs (hello, virgin here!) and I was like – ‘er what?! I know I said we would be non-exclusive but that is just going too far’. To cut the story short, he just keeps suggesting these lewd things and I just keep entertaining them . I am going to his place soon but I’m not sure I want to f**k him now. I mean, I’m perfectly ready to lose my V-card but I’m not sure he’s the right one to lose it to. I’m not expecting candles, flowers and love songs, just normal sex between two people. Another thing is the age difference, he’s 20 years older than I (don’t worry I’m an adult) but it seems he’s way too experienced than I am. I’m so confused. Can anyone please give me advice on this. Any response will be appreciated. Thanks.

    Reply to Comment

    kristen Reply:

    Dude! What are you doing he sounds not right at all, u will loose your v-card I never thought I would, it will happen with a guy that wants more than to get u to have a 3 some ur first time! And he txted u 2 weeks later? Stop talking to that creeper.

    Reply to Comment

    Essie Reply:

    Please do NOT have sex with him! Keep your virginity for someone who treats you better than that!

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    I agree with the comments you received. Losing your virginity just out of curiosity isn’t the right thing to do in this situation, especially with someone that cares for nothing about you. With time someone will come along who you do like and it will be more special to the both of you.

    Reply to Comment

  • kristen said:

    My fuck buddy and I meet last summer, and we have been talking ever since he lives in another state, so lots of talk. We meet in the middle at a hotel once or twice a month. I have been thinking about ending it and last night I said when both our schools start again, we should stop talking. And he asked are you sure? But I told him I want a different title. I really feel like I deserve one, I have been there for him. I have told him a few time that this feels like a relationship, like just last night, and he has said more than once he doesn’t want a relationship, not long distance. He said he needed more attention and together time. When he said that I said let’s stop talking now, and he said sorry if I was leading you on, I never ment to do that! Then I said no, I just likes the person you were. But was it my fault because I did cross that line? Did I mess this up a long time ago? I certainly don’t love him, but this is the first full say we haven’t talked at all, I didn’t get to wake up to my lovely “how did you sleep”. I can’t txt him and ask how he is! Not after that…right? Hasn’t even been a day. It wasn’t your average fuck buddy relationship and he said were not average. We had gotten emotionally invested, apparently me more idk. I just feel like I have been there for him, whenever he gets upset or has a problem at work, I feel like I have wasted my time, with a guy that said sry I led you on!

    Reply to Comment

  • lovestruck said:

    I have been F/buddies with this guy for about a year now. We started off like da usual, one or two dates, A LOT of texting almost everyday, exchanging pics & vids etc…I would meet up with him for sex and after we left eachother the texting and communication resumed…I honestly wanted more out of the situation because I really like the guy, even attempted to tell him how I felt. Lol, all I got was rejected. I decided to take a step back and try and get over the situatiion with him because it was becoming unhealthy for me to sleep with this guy and him not have the same feelings for me as I did for him. During that time apart he kept trying to see me and texting to see what was up with me. I refused to see him. LOL then I finally gave in after 3 months because I missed him (I know, I know)

    Now, almost 10 months later we are still F/B…difference is, we don’t meet up anymore, he come to my home, sometimes he stays the night and will stay half the next day with me on my days off…he is very personal with me now, telling me about his problems and just talking to me about anything (he was very private in the beginning). We always used condoms but recently, we haven’t been using them. And it seems to me that the ‘sessions’ are becoming more and more intimate (lots of kissing and caressing, cuddling after sex, sleeping in each others arms etc…) and the last few times during sex he came inside of me and did not ‘pull out’ and also during sex he asked me if I was all his and was it his pussy?

    Now my question is…what the heck is going on here? Lol like seriously becuz I want to believe he is falling in love with me but I want to be a realist here. So can u please help me with my question? Thanks!

    Reply to Comment

  • linda said:

    i have 3 fbs and all understand the rules i have set out for them one of these fbs is my ex partner of 2 yrs who has also decided he want to be single and have close females friends only but i love the is easier then a relationship and gives me the freedom as i am a sex addict so is my ex partner

    Reply to Comment

  • Confused and Curious said:

    Hi. An old school mate who used to like me back in middle school contacted me
    Recently because he was looking for an outta town friend. At the time
    I had been living in the same city but couldn’t let it be known for safety reasons.
    On our first date I good him I was living in the same city and
    He withheld info he wanted to tell me. He still kept saying he wanted a relationship even after he knew the truth. We talked about it and started having sex but then he lost his job and didn’t tell me. He started acting different saying he never wanted a relationship. Then he said we should stop having sex but he kept initiating it. Neither of us sleep around and I developed feelings for him which I told him as soon as I felt them. The sex is so good and I don’t wanna lose that but now he’s saying he doesn’t know what he wants. Should I wait until he is ready to be with me and not have sex as he wishes or find somebody else as a Fb and just not tell him ? Sex is not everything but he shouldn’t have has sex with me from the start if he didn’t want to keep it going or if he didn’t like me. Help !

    Reply to Comment

  • Dricka said:

    This is so true I met my “fuck buddy” in october of 2010 & it’s October of 2011 & were still goin off and on but it’s funny b/cuz this lasted longer than any of my relationships but my mistake was catching feelings and getting attached and letting my emotions get involved wen we started I was ok we jus fuckin that’s it but that didn’t work

    Reply to Comment

  • SARAH said:

    Hey,

    Ive had the same fuck buddy for 5 years, im confused to wether he is a complete wanker idiot ot just really messed in his head or if what he says is true.
    He says he loves me, we do alot together , and chat everyday, we’ve spoken about everything.EVERYTHING!
    So i asked him the other day if there’ll ever be more to us than this? And he said no, he’s always seen me as a friend first not as a girlfriend.
    wtf man.
    So i told him thats fine, i asked for it, but he should go find someone else to fuck with then. Cause i feel he has spoken a lot of shit to me, just to keep my coming back. Anyway so im trying to let it go, and now he’s all anal about it, like its his feeling that are hurt!!!
    Its confusing and bullshit. It was fun.
    So anyway Robbie** do you think i should just turn my back on this? Cut all ties? Or be friends!!bleh!!

    Reply to Comment

    SARAH Reply:

    And i suppose to put things in perspective im engaged now and have a child. So im probably wrong in what im doing in the first place. So if i wont no contact why does he act like the victim, when it was up to him?

    Reply to Comment

  • EMILY said:

    Ok, so I have this friend since the summer of 10′ and we just started the sexual part of the relationship in june. He lives just a state away, in the beginning I told him I really wanted to be his girlfriend and he said no because he needed somebody who was physically there for him. Its not that I didn’t want to but I couldn’t. But I told him I wouldn’t ask again(and I haven’t). And I’m pretty happy, if I ever have a problem I let him know. Were very honest. But were always texting and I feel like I get more than a sexual relationship, which I want. Whenever he is in town we always get together and also go out. I hope I stimulate him mentally as we as sexually. He always says that he thinks you should be with only 1 at a time, but I always just say okay to that and try to stay a bit of a mystery. I give a lot of trust here I really don’t think he is with another girl. But lately he hasn’t been texting much as all, I try not to be needy and chill, who am I to nag? All I wanna do is be there for him, see how he’s doing. I tell him all the time explanations aren’t necessary because were just fb’s. I think I’m gonna move by him, I’m not saying it will work out but I hope it does. What do you think Robbie?

    Reply to Comment

  • Ezza said:

    I had a fb for a month, and things were great then out of the blue he cut it off… Saying he just couldnt do it anymore, he just didnt want to and I was fine with that. Afterwardrds he ignored me for a month, during the first week I was flirting with a guy and he kept making excuses to walk past where I was. I started dating the guy about three weeks later, but before we dated my fb started talking talking to me while the guy I was seeing was away and one thing lead to another, I went home with him and for the first time we had a “sleepover”, not just sex like all the other times, he wanted me to stay with him.. I didnt know wtf to do but I spoke to one of my friends who helped me, told the guy I was seeing what happened and understabley he was mad and hurt, which is when he told me he wanted to be with me not just see me so we started dating…. And things have been great…….. Besides the fact that ever since my fb and I “broke up” he watches me and gets irritated when guys are around me or flirtatious…. I asked him if he ever wanted anything more and he said it was just sex and I was like ok just checking…….. Even after three months, he still watches me… Help? He was a lovely guy, I wanted to try and be friends but I dont know what to do or interpret what he does, I have people tell me even they still see him watching me… What do I do? How do I take it?

    Reply to Comment

  • Nicki123 said:

    ive had this fuckk buddy for like 2 years now. and well the past few weeks we havent been like fucking fuckking… i felt it as if it was making love. and hes been talking about how much he likes me, and thinks im soo hot. but says he cant see us being more than friends. he says he wants to thou. im just kinda confused. advice?
    Thankkks <3

    Reply to Comment

    resident Reply:

    When ever you need a fuck, I mean a really really good fuck let me know.

    Reply to Comment

  • resident said:

    It’s 2 in the morning and I am fucking horny as hell. I been with my wife for ten years now. I had been very faithfull to her through our relationship but tonight I stumble on this site and I am really in the process of reconsidering the faithfull shit. When we first started out, I did had more then a few F/B; which she was one of them. I cut every one of them out but her and for her. The fuck started out great but now every time when we do it. I can’t tell if it’s love making,sex,fucking or lets bust the nut and get it over with. I wanted to get a divorce but she decline every time.

    I know this will be wrong on my behalf but my sex drive is telling me other wise. I did told her about my frustration but she nevers take it seriously.
    So on that note I wanted to say that I am sorry to my wife that things have to work out this way.

    I will put myself back on the market this weekend and my cock have something to say as well.

    This is the exact word of what my COCK said ” WHAT SUP WORLD AM BACK”

    Reply to Comment

  • meena said:

    I’m going to speak frank on this subject and give a different view of this. Put some cents in. Personally I feel even seeking out a FB is a example of insecurity and selfishness. It is acting like wild animals. To say I can have sex but as soon as I go to feel love or like for someone, I’m putting on the breaks so they stay a F buddy, is a turn off. This is why most times when people are FB they don’t even say it out loud to each other or to others they know cause it is shameful. If it is such a normal thing and okay, why can’t people tell their parents “Ma, this girl I’m seeing is nice but she is just a FB” Why don’t people say this to people they go to church with or to people in church, probably don’t even confess it to anyone except someone who is FB to someone or is their life long friend. They would just keep the person a secret and tell people it is just a friend. Which is an example of how FB can be dishonest and they are aware that it is not a good thing. Being a FB is putting yourself at risk in so many ways such as getting STDs, possibly getting caught cause people tend to have FB even while already in a committed relationship. I know several people who got STDS from people they were just screwing around with. Relationships don’t start after you have sex and a date afterwards, it starts before that I believe. I believe you have sex with someone you are entering a relationship whether it is a FB or boyfriend and girlfriend and at that point it is need to be determined and frankly most people don’t say they just want to be your FB until after they have sex with you.

    I don’t know anyone who has known someone and not well and actually said to the person “hey would you be interested in being an FB” LOL.

    I think what happens is the sex happens and then one of the people then confesses that was all they were looking for, then the other person either decides to go along with it, or hide that they don’t want to or says they want more and hit the road.

    Most women I don’t even think they want it to be called that if they are, would like to live in a dream world that it is not or make believe it is not knowing that it is and they wonder how did it even get to the point of just being a FB without them being asked if they want to be before having sex with them.

    Most guys who just want to be an FB, are charming, feed you, show you some fun. Some will say everything they think you want to here just to get you in the cycle of being an FB or just screwing around with them (in which I recently had that problem) and I basically have confronted the guy and he claims that is not the case now and I have decided to give another month and if he turns cold on me like FB I’m hitting the road and not looking back.

    I don’t know to many women (unmarried) who have told their lover first, that they only want to be a FB.

    they say “I’m seeing this guy” when they should be saying “I’m f’n this guy”.

    People who just want to be a FB also tend to want to just live a wild life and test different people out, before making their decision as to who they want to be with and I know I would not want to be with anyone who just had FB, cause their sexual history would scare me.

    I have two people I know who are very close to me, who was into having FB and they both have HIV now.
    Yes, I have had two guys in my life trick me into becoming a FB, misleading me and today they want to really be apart of my life as a friend to and now I don’t even want to know them.

    People tend to be dishonest when they are FB, secretive and even sometime play Jet I mind games. I wonder how many FB even tell their FB, how many other FB they have had before them. I bet they really keep that a secret since I don’t think people who want to be a FB after the person had so many others. This leads me to saying that if FB is okay, then why should it matter if a FB had so many other FB before you. I know some FB who would not admit that this would bother them because they just want to keep the sex going.

    being FB is not healthy, safe and regardless of how good someone think it feel to have a no strings attached connect with just sex, it doesn’t feel better than being someone’s true love or best friend.
    What is important having your thrills without any questions asked and no commitment or not increasing your odds of getting a disease or falling for an FB and getting dumped cause they haven’t fallen for you.

    This is real talk. Some truth to be told.

    Peace.

    Reply to Comment

    dimebar Reply:

    I was talking to a man a couple of months ago on a dating site he was only looking nsa and I wasn’t but a few days a go I decided I needed a fuck buddy and went to the site and asked him if he was still up 4 nsa and if we worked well in that area wud he be my fuck buddy i’d say a lot of sexually frustrated girls wud ask sum1 they have never met and barely talked to for that arrangement as sum ppl don’t have a lot of free time to meet sum1 special. Fuck buddys are also gud if your on the rebound :) btw he said yes and we wrked well incase ne1 ws wondering ;)

    Reply to Comment

  • tinylover said:

    I need some guidance..
    I’ve recently attained a fb of my own. We’re only fuck buddies because I told him I’ve been hurt recently and a fb type thing is really all I can handle at the moment. I was proud of myself at the time, but now I’m getting a bit anxious. I’m a little worried because I’ve only ever heard of guys disrespecting women if they’ve agreed to casual sex. I’ve heard about 3 horror stories about this now. It’s as if guys don’t know the difference between a fuck buddy and a prostitute. Anyway.
    I fear the Fuck Buddy is doomed to fail because people wanna believe they’re the greatest in bed, and If a person wants to see multiple people (to help them feel less serious)(among other reasons, ofcourse), then that inevitably conflicts with that belief. Not in a childish way. It’s just that I feel a person can become annoyed if someone they’re having sex with hooks up with other people, even if they aren’t romantically interested in them. Because It’s like having a friend for dinner and they’ve brought something for themselves; rude.
    On the other hand you’re not really supposed to be exclusive are you? Yeah. No. Probably an equally moronic Idea. If not More so. So how to make it work? Without being secretive and sneaky and closed?
    Maybe I’m just not cut out for fb’s? I’m the girl, so I’m probably gonna get the shit sandwich in the end. Maybe I should just cancel the whole thing?

    Reply to Comment

  • lonelyandconfused said:

    Okay so me and my fb have been at it since early December or late November and I mean having a fb is nice and all, but I really want some sorry of relationship or to fall in love. So about two nights ago, he wanted to talk to me in the other room. Then he asked me if it could only be us, and not hookup with anyone else besides eachother. Does that mean he’s staying to develop feelings?

    Reply to Comment

    Robin Reply:

    Yes. He wants it to be only you two. Good luck.

    Reply to Comment

  • sheenab said:

    Hi RG,

    I recently got hooked with this guy…we’ve been “text mates/ friends” for almost 5 years now.

    one day we decided to meet and we had sex…we’ve met again after 3 months and did it again….i don’t know but i feel that i am starting to fall for him….how would i know if he feels something towards me too without asking him? what are the signs that he’s in love with me or I am just a simple fubu for him?

    thanks!

    Reply to Comment

  • Psyche said:

    What about, if a guy acts as if he just want to be f/bs but doesn’t actually come out saying that’s all he wants even when confronted by it?

    Not only that he’ll ask for favors such as picking him stuff at the store I work at or calling to place an order for Chinese food, but after having really awesome sex, he’ll want me to stay and yet make me feel awkward and not welcomed to stay anyway. WTF is the deal with that?

    Reply to Comment

  • Stephanie said:

    I recently, yesterday actually, agreed with a guy i’m attracted to, who is also conceited and can get a girl in 5 seconds, in having a Sex Buddy relationship. I read what you had to say. This will be my first time doing this. We also work with either. Can you give me any other advice on how to remain strict with only the physical side, not emotional? I’d appreciate it. Thanks so much!

    Reply to Comment

    Robby G Reply:

    @Stephanie: There are loads of different advice on this site of how to keep feelings out of a sex buddy relationship. Here’s one for instance that can work for women as well men: http://www.shiteilike.com/youre-just-a-fuck-buddy-period/
    Cheers!

    Reply to Comment

    kelly Reply:

    NEVER NEVER NEVER have a fuck buddy that you work with. Fuck buddy situations are usually temperary and you may be stuck working with him for a long time. He could also hook up with another girl at work and then you would have to deal with working with the both of them. … This happened to me when I was younger and it caused all sorts of drama at work. If you have to have a fuck buddy I suggest being one with someone who you dont “like” in any way otherwise you will get attached

    Reply to Comment

  • Chealsea__Ayz said:

    Soo I have a fwb (friends with benefits)and its with my bestfriend who’ve i had a history with and this has been going on for 2yrs already and latley i havent talk to him after two months we had sex and now that I started talking to him again hes been really cold with me and when our friends r not around he calls me a slut just because I dont see him anymore to mess around and its like i work now and and Ive just become to busy and lil does he know I have not slept with anyone else but only him since day 1and now its like idk what to do and sometimes yea I go missing for a while but thats only becase im afraid that if I get to close I can easily fall for him and its like idk why he acts like that when he knows that its just sex no emotion . So now im lost and confused

    Reply to Comment

  • Nicole said:

    Hi I already have a great boyfriend but lately I think I’ve become a f/b to one of my friends. I know I’m cheating on my boyfriend but now I can’t help thinking about my fuck buddy. Should I just tell f/b no…

    Reply to Comment

  • Little 'ol Me said:

    You people are crazy! A fuck buddy is just that!! A person you have sex with! Nothing more! You don’t go on a date, you don’t hang out… Nothing! If you run into him somewhere, smile and say HI. That’s it. Keep it in the bedroom where it belongs! Having the agreement from the get go is the smartest thing to do. If you start having feelings, get rid of them! It will never amount to anything! Don’t look for it to.

    And yes, I’m a lady. I currently have 3 FB. All different situations with them all. But never do I hang out with any of them. I am a secret and I like it that way. Their girlfriend, wife or family knows nothing! It’s all for the wonderful sex we have with each other! And I’m proud to say that 2 of them are 15 years younger than me! I don’t contact them, they contact me. If they want to cheat on their girl, that’s up to them. Who am I to say no to a cop or a guy in the National Guard whose body is smokin hot?? Hahahaha!

    After being married for 20 years, this is exactly what I need in my life right now! Just a fuck buddy! Or buddies… Lol. if you know you can’t handle just a fuck, don’t even start it… But I’ve been havin the best 10 months of my life with my cop!!!

    Reply to Comment

  • Madison said:

    I’ve been in a f buddy relationship for 18 months now. We were first complete strangers who hit it off initially. We have a lot in common from our political views, to how we were raised, our taste in music and movies, work ethic, etc. I think my first mistake was not realizing this was a bad idea when I knew early on we had so much in common. I am currently very busy in graduate school so when I first started I thought this was a good option for me. For the first year we saw each other almost every week to every two weeks. He’d drive to see me or I’d drive to see him (we live in different states) and we’d go out for drinks, food, movies, beach, etc. My second mistake in this f buddy relationship was cuddling and sleeping over. We cuddle a lot and have even termed it “shnuggling”. Gross, isn’t it? So 6 months ago he relocated even farther away from me which was quite devastating. I had already developed such strong feelings for him. I told him how I felt before he left because I wanted him to know. I was very supportive of his move because it was good for him. He said he liked me but he can’t be in a relationship because he can’t be there for someone if he doesn’t have his life together. Now for the last 6 months we still talk on the phone and when time permits we meet and hook up, cuddling, and all. I’ve even visited him for spring break where he relocated. I have not brought up my feelings since he moved away until yesterday. I bottled it in because I knew that if we did share the same feelings it still isn’t the right time for both of us to just start a relationship. I just couldn’t help it, I had to tell him how I feel. I told him I still had the same feelings that I had before he left and that from my perspective we are more than just f buddies. He assured me he isn’t hooking up with anyone else and would tell me if he did. And about us being fuck buddies he said that we’re not fuck buddies at this point. I told him I’m not asking him for anything but I want to know what this is. He said he doesn’t want a relationship. I want one with him just not now. This conversation ended abruptly and will continue sometime later today. I don’t know what I’m doing. Should I just shut him out of my life completely? I’ve tried before and I couldn’t do it. Please help! I’ve got different advice from everyone.

    Reply to Comment

    Laura Reply:

    You don’t sound at all like fuck buddies. It sounds like a long distance relationship, particularly in how he assures you that there is no one else. A fuck friend would never do this. It sounds too much like a commitment.

    Reply to Comment

  • Vansh said:

    Hi im a very simple and innocent boy 22 thats why still i am virgin but need a girl or lady which give me true love at jaipur

    Reply to Comment

  • Tifa said:

    I got 2 FB just recently. FB1 lives like over an hour away from me and FB2 lives 15 minutes away from me. I like FB1 more, i don’t know why, perhaps everytime we have sex he is more passionate, more kissing and he really wants to please me. While FB2 is more on domination sex, he likes bj and anal most of the time. It seems like he wants to be please all the time. But the thing is, if i want sex, FB2 is more convenient for me cause i can come over to his house anytime, and FB1 is i have to wait until he comes down to my city and we have to get a motel everytime we wanna do it.

    Oh well, i can’t complain i guess. I think i got two best guys in bed in their own unique way. LOL!

    Reply to Comment

  • megan said:

    Ive met this guy…we were fuck buddies for awhile..stopped talking to him…started again he was married …they divorced ….fucked again …couple times…stopped talking again ….now he lives like 10 mins away .. Has a baby and about to get married… Says he wanted to be “friend” . Im.not really sure how to be his friend. Couple of nights ago we were gonna meet up but he had tons of reports ro write. So i said ok naybe next time … He then told me im still not doing anything… I said its alright i just wanted to see you its been forver. Well he’ll message me and ill write back. Im not forsure what he wants from me because our past? How.can i try to be friends when i just want to have sex with him. I do like him. Hes a really nice sweet fuy. Prob everything i want in a man. Dont get me wrong i like him but we are both in situtions that are complexed. How can i tell what hes looking for. When i ask he dodges the question. I did ask him what he wanted from ne and he responded what do you mean waht i want… I dont knw what signs to read and wjere this is going. How can you be friends? Ive knwn him for 7 years. He lived hr away and now 10 mins. What the hell huh

    Reply to Comment

  • female40 said:

    Its helpful reading about everybody’s FB scenarios. I just started my first FB relationship at the ripe old age of 40. I have been in two long term relationships for 11 years. Im still living with the second one, but its pretty much over and he knows im saving up to move out. We hadn’t had sex in over a year, and I couldn’t hold out any longer. I keep myself in shape and am not an old looking 40, and believe me the desires don’t fade just because you get a little older. So anyway I went online and met a guy, he is 38 and looks about 28. Very attractive looking, and made very clear that he is looking for nsa sex only. We talked and texted for about six weeks or so, have a lot in common and wanted to get to know each other a little first before going for the sex. Well finally it happened about a week ago. It was wonderful!! He is much better sexually than either of the other two guys I was involved with before. I saw him again a few days later. The sex is so great and after only two times, we know it will just get hotter. But since it happened, the talking and texting stopped. It is now just strictly contact to make plans to meet up for more sex. He has made it clear he doesn’t want a girlfriend. I appreciate that he is so honest and straightforward. So, it is my responsibility to leave my emotions at the door and just enjoy it for what it is. Fantastic sex that I have been deprived of for a long time! There are many benefits, increased confidence, validation of myself as a sexual being, and just the pleasure of this young and attractive guy wanting me sexually. When I was younger I would definitely have problems with developing feelings and getting attached. I think sometimes the FB arrangement is easier when you’re a little older and a little more jaded as far as relationships. I don’t want to know if he is sleeping with other women, but can accept that it’s none of my business. I do initiate contact since I’m in a living situation where we have to see each other depending on when I can get away. Once I move out I will leave the contact up to him though. My only hope is that we keep seeing each other until all of my needs for sex are satisfied, and then of course I want to find a “normal” relationship again. My fear is that he would be the one to end it first. I’m aware that he could meet someone who he feels is worthy enough to be a girlfriend and not just a FB. But I’m realistic enough to look at him and know that he would go for somebody younger and not to be too surprised if that happens. I don’t want to think about being dumped as a FB right now though….it’s all still very new and still so much to explore!

    Reply to Comment

  • Dricka said:

    I met my fuck buddy in 2010, and even untill now we still fuck around from time bt I made the mistake of catching feelings. And I think he feels some kinda way abt me 2 bt doesn’t wanna say anything or maybe he jus wants me to think he does. But at the end of the if we still fuckin or not I’ll be dere 4 him jus b/cuz

    Reply to Comment

  • Alala said:

    Fuckbuddy relationships never work out in the long term. Why? We are human beings, not robots. Sex purely without emotion is impossible, and even if you could do it, why would you? You might as well just fuck a tree. It just takes out all of the real fun in sex. Sex drives are operated on the same system as emotions. Emotions will come into play sooner or later. It’s just a matter of when, and how it will turn out.

    We are so focused on getting results now without thinking about the effects in the future. The sex may be great now, but it will get boring later. And it will remain uninteresting for the rest of your life. Good luck finding honest love, since your expectations of sex will cloud your judgement.

    Reply to Comment

  • Holly said:

    So my fwb moved away but we keep in touch every few weeks. He is busy with his career and I’m even more busy with school. I fell in love with him but he doesn’t know this. I just recently tried forgetting about him because this whole thing is toxic to me. I deleted his phone number but he called and texted me 3 days ago saying, “I haven’t talked to u in so long, how are u, what’s new with u” and he also said he missed me. I tried so hard but I called him back and when I called, the phone didn’t ring and he picked up elated to hear my voice. We met in person that night and hooked up. I must say we both jumped through hoops to see each other that night but I won’t get into explaining that. When we saw each other for the first time that night we hugged each other and he even got on top of me so we could cuddle. After we had sex we fell asleep cuddling. I dont regret seeing him because its what i wanted to do at the moment but now i feel lost all over again. He’s going away for work for the next 3 months and offered to fly me out there to see him. A part of me says this is a bad idea but then I can’t help my feelings. I don’t know what to do…I’ve had 3 bfs before and was only in love with one of them and now I’m madly in love with my fwb who lives so far away. I think he knows I care about him more than fwb but he doesn’t know I love him. He says we’re friends first always and he cares about me but doesn’t ever want to get married. So how do I break away from this situation?!?! God knows I’ve tried…

    Reply to Comment

  • Holly said:

    So my fwb moved away but we keep in touch every few weeks. He is busy with his career and I’m even more busy with school. I fell in love with him but he doesn’t know this. I just recently tried forgetting about him because this whole thing is toxic to me. I deleted his phone number but he called and texted me 3 days ago saying, “I haven’t talked to u in so long, how are u, what’s new with u” and he also said he missed me. I tried so hard but I called him back and when I called, the phone didn’t ring and he picked up elated to hear my voice. We met in person that night and hooked up. I must say we both jumped through hoops to see each other that night but I won’t get into explaining that. When we saw each other for the first time that night we hugged each other and he even got on top of me so we could cuddle. After we had sex we fell asleep cuddling. I dont regret seeing him because its what i wanted to do at the moment but now i feel lost all over again. He’s going away for work for the next 3 months and offered to fly me out there to see him. A part of me says this is a bad idea but then I can’t help my feelings. I don’t know what to do…I’ve had 3 bfs before and was only in love with one of them and now I’m madly in love with my fwb who lives so far away. I think he knows I care about him more than fwb but he doesn’t know I love him. He says we’re friends first always and he cares about me but doesn’t ever want to get married. He also said if i start getting close to someone it will bother him but he’s not sure how exactly he will feel when that happens. Should I start dating guys? I don’t want to waste anyone’s time just bc I want my fwb to feel jealous…that’s just childish. So how do I break away from this situation?!?! God knows I’ve tried…

    Reply to Comment

  • Laura said:

    Hi,

    Having read your article I just wanted to ask your opinion on a situation I’m currently in with my fb. He lives in another country and comes over to where I live two or three times a year. We talk on facebook about two to three times a week. We exchange pictures and skype as a way to communicate. The thing is though I am extremely attracted to him (appearance wise) however I haven’t fucked him yet. I just want some tips on how to not to become attached to him, once we have fucked as we both want to fuck when he comes over next time.

    Thanks
    x

    Reply to Comment

    Guest Reply:

    It sounds like with the communicating online several times a week you are already getting attached. Once you have sex it will just make that attachment more intense. Good luck and I hope you don’t end up getting hurt.

    Reply to Comment

  • wedding Veil said:

    Hey there! Quick question that’s totally off topic. Do you know how to make your site mobile friendly? My web site looks weird when browsing from my apple iphone. I’m trying to find a theme or plugin that might
    be able to fix this issue. If you have any recommendations, please
    share. Thank you!

    Reply to Comment

  • Guest said:

    Hi I wrote back on 9-15 about my new FB relationship. Still going on and now six weeks later into it wanted to share some thoughts. Once a week is a good amount to see the FB. More than that and I will get attached to him, no matter how hard I try to force myself not to. Having “quickies” also helps. We had a long hour session today and naturally in all of that sex I am going to develop affection for him. Not good. Needs to just be animal lustful sex, no feelings involved….but how can a woman not feel anything when this smoking hot man is kissing her and making her have two, three orgasms? We’re only human. I just have to consciously tell me not to get involved. Im old enough to know the dangers of falling for hot looking guys. Always ends in disaster. One good thing is this one is very candid about the fact that he does not want anything other than sex. He is very nice and respectful of me however. Today we lingered around in bed for a little while afterward, which I realize is a big no in the FB rules. But we have the same political opinions so just talked about the election. Nothing deep or emotional or anything like that. And sometimes during the week we both listen to a political talk show and he will text some comments to me and we might go back and forth about that a little. But i never initiate it. I am just enjoying the best sex of my life right now, and yeah I guess having things in common just makes it better. I don’t want to have sex with somebody I don’t like or who treats me like garbage.

    Reply to Comment

    lydia Reply:

    hi i wanna thank all of u guys for your comments bcos i learned from all of u mostly now my fuck buddy and i have formed a serious relationship he even change his status on facebook into being in a relationship with me and told his friends who i was to him when they asked him on fb his bros told me tha he has never changed his status on facebook like neverrrrrrrrrrrrrr
    so my advice to everyone is prove to ur fwb that u can be the one and cconvince him in every aspect if u love him its not easy it took me seven months to go thru the trial bcos i fell in love with him and now we r in a relationship am so happy thanks to this site!!!! xoxo good luck guys

    Reply to Comment

  • whsthgrl said:

    im in a 2 1/2 yr fn relationship. we have never dated. in the beginning we would watch tv and even spend the night but not now. he has called it off twice for about 6 wks each time. an everytime i go back. he knows i want more and keeps telling me that he is not likely to do much more with me. i fine that i dont want to see or even talk to other men and that i am wanting alot more from my fb and hoping that the longer i stay hopeing that it will end with the happy ever after. hes reason for not wanting more is his son that is 6 and lives with him. end the end i am going to be the one hurt. the last time he did the 6wks vanish it hurt like hell and this he knows. we live in different states and i am thinking of moving to the town he lives in so i will be closer. we have small about life and his world but never mine. is there ever a chance he will care?

    Reply to Comment

  • whsthgrl said:

    im in a 2 1/2 yr fn relationship. we have never dated. in the beginning we would watch tv and even spend the night but not now. he has called it off twice for about 6 wks each time. an everytime i go back. he knows i want more and keeps telling me that he is not likely to do much more with me. i fine that i dont want to see or even talk to other men and that i am wanting alot more from my fb and hoping that the longer i stay hopeing that it will end with the happy ever after. hes reason for not wanting more is his son that is 6 and lives with him. end the end i am going to be the one hurt. the last time he did the 6wks vanish it hurt like hell and this he knows. we live in different states and i am thinking of moving to the town he lives in so i will be closer. we have small about life and his world but never mine. is there ever a chance he will care?

    Reply to Comment

  • jean said:

    Hello i am Perry,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how i got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month,But when i meet a friend that introduce me to great zuba the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to great zuba about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact great zuba at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him at:greatzuba@gmail.com

    Reply to Comment

  • Ryan Padraig Kelly Fuck | ryanpadraigkelly265 said:

    [...] Avoid Typical Fuck Buddy Mistakes | Ask Robby G [...]

  • viagra said:

    hello there and thank you for your information – I have
    definitely picked up anything new from right here. I did however expertise a few technical issues using this site, since I experienced to reload the web site a lot of
    times previous to I could get it to load properly.
    I had been wondering if your web host is OK? Not that I am complaining,
    but sluggish loading instances times will sometimes affect your placement in google and
    could damage your quality score if advertising and marketing with Adwords.
    Anyway I am adding this RSS to my email and can look out for a lot more of your respective interesting content.
    Make sure you update this again very soon.

    Reply to Comment


Leave your Thoughts!

PLEASE RECOMMEND US ON FACEBOOK