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[14 Sep 2009 | 5 Comments | ]

Do you think it’s possible for two friends to decide to be fuck buddies and
maintain the friendship even when the mutual using is over?
I just had a very rational, open, and honest conversation with a friend
about it last night, but I don’t want to lose the friend after our physical
relationship ends–either when one of us finds something else or in about 6
months when I move 500 miles away.
What’s your take?
You can give it a go and see how it goes, because it would be an interesting experiment, but… There’s always …

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[12 Sep 2009 | 111 Comments | ]

I meet this bloke about 4 months ago. We have been fuckbuddies ever since.
We text each other most days and he phones me most weekends after a night
out. We both said we didn’t want a relationship as I was happy being single
and he’d just come out of a serious relationship.
The problem is I’ve started to feel more for him which I hadn’t planned to
do and a couple of weeks ago when I was drunk I told him. He was really
honest and said that he wasn’t ready for a relationship even …

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[14 Aug 2009 | 9 Comments | ]

Hi
So my situation started with a weekend away – he had a gf at the time but
we still ended up hooking up….on the last night he said he couldn’t take
my number as it was “complicated” but would add me on fb which he did a few
days later.  We then just used to dirty chat over instant messenger and I
sent him private messages when drunk.
He ended up breaking up with his gf and we got into a fuck buddy situation
but never set out any rules as such….I saw him 8 times …

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[20 Jul 2009 | 6 Comments | ]

First off, I just came to your site today…and I love it! OK, now down to
the nitty gritty: I am recently separated, not divorced yet. I started
talking to a guy in the terms of let’s just have some fun. He lives in
another town like 2 hours away (for some back story) and he also has a
girlfriend. So, we have hooked up twice, a month apart from eachother. It’s
fun, and exciting, and the sex is FANTASTIC. He is into things that I have
never done and he is a great teacher 😉 …

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[23 Jun 2009 | 89 Comments | ]

Readers have been asking how to make sure a fuck buddy doesn’t decide to become anything more than just a fuck buddy. What’s the best way to keep your fuck buddy in her position without hurting her feelings and by still continuing to keep her on call whenever you’re feeling lonely? When getting into a fuck buddy relationship you both need to know that it’s nothing serious and that you can go out with other women anytime you want without her permission. You’re both there for each other to satisfy …

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[23 Apr 2009 | 223 Comments | ]

I noticed that a lot of people were entering my site through searches such as “How to find a fuck-buddy” and the like, and since I don’t really explain how to do that, but only explained the benefits of fuck-buddies in a post entitled Fuck Buddy VS Girlfriend so in this post I wanted to do just that. I’ve noticed that the best type of women to get as fuck-buddies are the professional career women. They’re usually too busy for a relationship and have too much work-related stress to not want sexual …

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[18 Mar 2009 | 51 Comments | ]

What’s better to have: a fuck buddy or a girlfriend? Asking this question to friends, acquaintances, and many random people I’ve talked to on subject of girls throughout my time, I was surprised that not as many people as I thought picked fuck buddy. I thought it would be a sure winner, no questions asked, that if a guy can get a good looking girl to sleep with on a regular basis with no other attachment then they’d surely pick that, but there were still many guys choosing girlfriend over fuck buddy. This …