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[25 Aug 2012 | 2 Comments | ]

Hey Robby,
So I’m in a bit of a situation- what situation I’m in, is what I’m hoping you can
tell me. Met this guy through a friend- hit it off immediately and have been
hooking up ever since for three weeks. He has a girlfriend of 8 years, so its
the perfect situation for a fb relationship- no expectations on either end-
discussed and everything. The last 2 weeks he has been sleeping over, every
night- and if he skips a night -we see each other everyday. We are at the point
where we don’t …

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[23 Aug 2012 | 3 Comments | ]

Hi Robby,
I am one of those women you try to help. I have the same problem with a FB
shitty relationship or what’s it called and I seek your assistance.
I have been with a FB for almost a year now. We met at a club and started to
text and met a couple of times and then during the fall it went quiet. Then out
of the blue he texted me again just before Christmas and wanted to sleep with me
again. I told him it probably wouldn’t be a good idea since it …

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[29 Jun 2012 | No Comment | ]

There is a lot to this but I’ll try to be brief.
I have been fucking this guy for a couple months now. The first night I went
over there, I told him I didn’t want a relationship. He keeps telling me about
his friend, a musician, that I need to meet him and we would have a good time
playing together. (I’m a musician too) Well, Friday night, a couple of my
girlfriends and I went out with my buddy and his friend. The moment I saw his
friend I didn’t want …

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[21 Apr 2012 | No Comment | ]

Hello Robby, I could use your advice, I have been happily a FB for the last 3
years with a guy I met as I’d just came out of divorce. Initially I did the
typical woman on the rebound thing, and fell in love with my buddy. But he sat
me down and explained the rules and we’ve been fine ever since. Until a couple
of weeks ago, we got up a heated steam of passion and for the first time, fucked
without a condom. It was accidental, but incredible. I didn’t think too much
about …

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[27 Mar 2012 | 3 Comments | ]

Hi, i’ve been having a casual relationship with this guy who is 12 years younger
than me for about 6 months. Its also long distance so i have only been seeing
him about twice a month.He lives in my hometown in Wiltshire, so I go there
often to see family.
I did not tell him my age for fear of putting him off and I look alot younger
than i am (45). I fell for him as soon as our eyes met and he was very keen too.
I was happy because i had not …

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[20 Feb 2012 | One Comment | ]

When I open my inbox, I notice that the majority of the questions I receive from readers tend to focus on the same issue. “I’ve had a friend with benefits for this or that many months and I’ve began to fall in love with him or her.” In this post I want to clarify to readers how exactly not to get attached to your friend with benefits and just have fun, because if you’re not in it for the fun and want something serious with emotional ties, then get yourself …

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[10 Feb 2012 | One Comment | ]

Hey Robby G!
About 6-7 months ago my mom introduced me to a guy who could help me with a
bartending job, we met up several times to go over the process, but ended up
spending more time talking and hanging out-going to a restaurant etc.
Definitely great chemistry between us and he had told me he thought I was very
attractive, but I had mentioned I was in a relationship of 3 years so that was
that, really. I ended up getting a job elsewhere, thanked him, he asked if we
could still hang out …