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[29 Jan 2012 | No Comment | ]

Hi Robby,
I need boy input here! My question is: as a guy who is in a f/buddy relationship
with a girl who has obvious feelings for the guy, would you ever say “i
love you” in a playful way (like in a joke or backhanded way) or do guys
avoid any non-serious use of the L word like the plague? I would have thought
the latter, but an FB of mine really surprised me by uttering the L word (in a
backhanded way). I’m trying to figure out if that’s all it was — a …

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[24 Jan 2012 | One Comment | ]

hey Robby. I’ve been seeing my fuck buddy Nelson for a couple months now, and
we’ve been fuck buddies since the beginning. I’ve never had a fuck buddy
relationship I’m not sure what to expect. We meet a couple times a week at least,
and for the past two weeks I’ve been staying at his house as a guest, and the
two weeks before I was there almost every night and gone in the afternoon or
evening and picked up later that night again. He has found out about two of my
other fuck buddies and …

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[13 Jan 2012 | No Comment | ]

Hi, Robby! Your site is amazing, thank you very much for all the time you put in
it!!
Robby, I found myself in quite a tricky situation and I really need your advice.
I met Adam at a party. He had a girlfriend of 5 years when we met, he was open
about it, and after one week and one amazing emotional sex, we decided to stop,
(mainly me), because I didn’t want to get in the middle of a relationship. After
less than a month he contacted me. I found out that he broke up …

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[25 Dec 2011 | No Comment | ]

My ex And I were together For 7 years. He broke it off with me for someone else.
It’s been two years since we split and since then we have been sleeping together
off and on. We have three kids together so we always see each other.
After the break up I guess you can say we became fwb. While being fwb he said
he was talking to someone and she was celibate and they weren’t serious. As time
goes by he gets married which I didn’t know. Till one day his pregnant wife …

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[5 Dec 2011 | 12 Comments | ]

Is it actually possible to be JUST Fuck buddies with someone?
My short answer is NO! Surprised I think that? Let me explain. A Fuck buddy arrangement is very volatile by nature and invariably someone breaks the rules and it ends up getting too complicated. People are destined to connect with each other, especially when they are bumping uglies. Girls have figured this out and that why if they consider you to be a good enough friend, they won’t risk it buy introducing sex into the equation. Then it’s off …

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[15 Nov 2011 | 9 Comments | ]

Hey Robby G,
This is my problem.. Four years ago when I was younger, I started seeing
this guy Ryan. This was right after me and my ex of two years broke up, We
went on a date or two and had a lot of the same friends.. So eventually we
started hooking up. I didn’t have any feelings for him because I still loved
my ex and assumed it was just a booty call since I only called him at 3 a.m.
He got mad when I told him he was just my …

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[16 Sep 2011 | 2 Comments | ]

This is a guest post from Eric J. Leech, author of Love, Lust, and Relationships
A guy may be able to throw a curve ball, speed shift a Honda Civic, or throw back three shots of Tequila. However, when it comes to picking out a lacy bra and panty set for a couple of ugly’s on various dating website’s, most guys prefer to keep their ties in the closet, rather than themselves (yes, this is a gay reference in poor taste). This leaves him with absolutely no idea where to begin …