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[26 May 2010 | One Comment | ]

Your blog is fascinating.. and you’re such an adorable boy to be so
knowledgable in controlling your sexual desires from emotions. I was hoping
you could give me some male’s perspective on my particular situation.
I met this man about 4 yrs ago.. He pursued me for about a month, and after
we had sex for the first time.. We became FWB. He followed the rules but
broke many as time passed by. I don’t think it’s humanly possible for a man
and a woman to be intimate with each other for 4 years …

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[14 May 2010 | 5 Comments | ]

Dear Robby,
I came across your blog cuz I’ve been googling ‘advice’.
Theres this guy I really like, I met him over a year ago & we kicked it off
instantly. But just as things were starting to get serious, he confessed
that he has a girlfriend already so I backed off cuz I didn’t wanna be with a guy
who’d cheat on his girlfriend.
Although I’ve to admit, I never really got over him even if I was seeing
other guys. I’d run into him occasionally cuz he lives near me & we both
hang out in …

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[21 Apr 2010 | 8 Comments | ]

Robby G!!! Love your info man, great advice on not so popular, to the masses,
topics. My situation goes like this. My girlfriend and I were dating for
nearly 3 years. Then about 3 months ago out of nowhere she says she has lost
feelings for me. I sleep on the statement and think about it and the next
morning I call her to end the relationship. We both agree to do our own
thing and if at a later date see if we can remain friends. Now during this 3
month stint of freedom I …

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[19 Apr 2010 | 2 Comments | ]

Hey Robby. So my question is about a guy who is my friend, with HUGE
benefits. We were friends for over a year before we got sexually involved,
and we both really enjoyed… each “others company” once we started getting
together.
This guy is not just any friend before we became involved we were best buds
we told each other everything. So we know a lot about each other. I had a
boyfriend before we started the friends with benefits thing, but once we
broke up me and my friend got it on. We talk daily to …

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[17 Apr 2010 | 6 Comments | ]

hello how are you. i really enjoyed reading your site and thought to myself
that I may ask you questions about my own situations as well. I really
really need your help here so please write back. it is a long story. I met
him when i was 12 and he was 25. he is my mom’s friend. when i was 15 i don’t
know what happend i really liked him and accidently I kissed him. we only
kissed once, and a year after he told me that he had feelings toward me as
well at …

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[30 Mar 2010 | 2 Comments | ]

Hi Robby,
I really enjoy reading your blog. I have a friend who became my fuck-buddy
by chance. At first I was fine with it, but little by little I started
developing feelings for him. He got upset because I told some of our friends
and it got back to him, and he stopped coming over, stopped responding to my
messages and completely ignores me in public. When I confronted him, he told
me that we should take it slow. So I ignored him for a while and he came to
me one night and we had …

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[21 Mar 2010 | 5 Comments | ]

So I have this open relationship with this girl. We been messing around for
a couple months. We are also best friends. It started off rough and it was
pretty smooth sailing for a while. Until tonight, where she asks me how i
feel about our situation and her. So i told her that i think everything is
going pretty smooth and that i have love for her as a friend and nothing
else. We both understood that this was never going to get very serious in
the long run. So she then tells …