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[6 Oct 2011 | One Comment | ]

So, I used to be fuck buddies with this guy for about a couple months. Let’s
see, originally, we were going to try to date but I started acting crazy and
super insecure. It’s just not me, at all. So, we stopped having sex for a
while, honestly, we’ve hung out more than we’ve had sex. Anyway, am I over
reading this? He always takes care of me when I cry, no other girl, or gets
into fights with other guys who are treating me wrong. And he always says,
“I really, really care about you” …

General Advice, Hooking Up »

[26 Apr 2011 | 2 Comments | ]

Hi, Robby. I’m in a bit of a mess right now. So, about a month ago I slept
with my good friend from work. We’ve been friends for almost 3 years. Well
he has a girlfriend and I know its wrong but i can’t seem to help the
attraction between us because we are so much alike and whatnot. Anyways,
just last night I was planning on hooking up with him after work and we were
texting. (I was drunk. I don’t know if he was) and I asked if he was coming
over. He said …

Dating, General Advice »

[31 Mar 2011 | No Comment | ]

I am not one for asking for help but here goes.
In some ways I am looking for structure and a way of finding myself a good
I recently have became divorced because my wife and I no longer found each
other attractive enough to make love to each other.
In her attempt to communicate that the confusion began for all sorts of
reasons but the end result is that I have linked my lack of direction to all
sorts of ideas, compatible girl, woman in my life. This is why I decided …

General Advice »

[15 Oct 2010 | No Comment | ]

Hi Robby. its a previlege to be here on ya blog. Everytime i find my ideal
woman and try to get into a serious relationship they disappoint me but when
i give up and want to act de playboy things go smooth.the first woman i met
was my first love. we met in de secondary and dated through to High school
and University. She later moved to Germany and we kept contact for about 2
years. I later found out she was pregnant from another guy one week before
she gave birth, amazingly she kept communications …

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[5 Jul 2010 | One Comment | ]

I read your article about why men lead us on, and it does make sense.
However I just had a situation that nothing I read covers. I met a really
nice guy online, we had a lot in common, and he kept saying how excited he
was that we got along so well. We’d spend nights watching movies online
together, sharing music and all sorts of mushy stuff. Of course I was
getting into him. We finally went out on a date a few weeks later – we were
both nervous and told each other so. …

General Advice »

[1 May 2010 | 8 Comments | ]

I’m new to being a fuck buddy so I need your advice.
I met a married man – I’m married also – with whom I have NSA, FB sex. His
schedule is much busier than mine, so I told him to just call whenever he
had time to get together.
He lives about 40 miles from me and I go to him because he doesn’t have time
to travel.
I’ve seen him a couple of times and would like to see him again. I at least
understand that there are no set time limits – could be …

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[26 Apr 2010 | No Comment | ]

Whoever really knows me, they will tell you that I am a self-analytical SOB, and recently I was thinking about why I have never felt the urge to be envious of anyone, whether other more successful fellow bloggers or rich movie stars or business moguls. What came to my mind then is something completely logical and it made me happy that I lacked this feeling of envy or desire to compete with anyone. I have never competed against anyone except for one person: myself. And I found that competing against …