Wow I found this funny ass sound clip left from a guy who picked up a woman in the streets of Toronto (yes, my home town). Basically the story goes like this: a girl was out with friends having drinks on King St.  This guy approaches her and won’t leave her alone -saying how cute she is. She finally gives in  and hands the guy her business card to get rid of him. The attached  is an MP3 file of not one, but TWO voicemails this guy left. This goes down  in …

Here is an email I got from a reader recently:
How do you get rid of someone you just met or hooked up with, and you have told them that you don’t want a relationship? Of course you can ignore them, but that makes you look like a dick. Saying your too busy or I don’t think it’s a good idea to hang out usually makes the other person mad. Saying, “lets just be friends”
usually ends with the other person taking you up on that offer and I don’t like that …

Guest Post by Jennifer Martin, contributing author at the Negotiation Board.

Who says there is no such thing as Happily Ever After? I have found my prince and am living proof that every woman’s fantasy can come true. After years of dating nothing but absolute losers, I lost hope and resigned myself to a life of misery dating the same type of man who is what I call a “Frog.” If you are questioning whether or not your man’s a Frog, then he probably is. If you want clear confirmation, if …

What’re the most important things to you in your life? I’m not talking about friends, family, your girlfriend or your hair stylist’s advice. I’m talking about priorities. Yesterday I was noticing that since I moved to Amsterdam I have had certain expectations of myself, and I realized I’m not proud of any of them. My expectations in the city of sin were just having fun, fun, fun. And it’s been exactly a month since I arrived and I finally feel completely exhausted. I’ve been drinking every day, I’ve been polluting …

I was chatting with my mate and he was feeling really depressed for some reason. He wasn’t doing anything to improve his life, he didn’t have anything going for him, he wasn’t organized, structured, or satisfied in any way. But what was worse is that he didn’t even have the will to get up in the morning and get himself together. So he was telling me that he wanted to go and sign up with the army with a 5 year contract. The idea had been circling his mind for months …

Why does a small minority of men get the majority amount of women? Why is it that you give a woman all your attention, affection, interest, and you get the cold shoulder? Why does talking and trying to get with a girl come with such difficulty for you while it comes almost naturally for other men? Have you ever given these points a thought and wished you had a solid answer so you could get the most beautiful women while your colleagues looked at you and wished they were you. …

…but it would be nothing without a woman or a girl. This post is extremely important for me to write specifically at this point in my life when I’m away from home and by myself without knowing too many people in Amsterdam. The James Brown lyrics reallycome into play because when you haven’t got too many people to connect with like family or friends, finding yourself a girl can be crucial. Though a certain woman can be the worst or best thing that has ever happened to you, it is …