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[23 Jan 2011 | 2 Comments | ]

Dear Robby,
I sent you an email initially on the 11th September 2010 with the title, “A Few Words and a Kiss” and am hoping that you can advise me on what to do
with the latest problem with my FB.
Basically, my last post to you was saying that my FB said that he just
wanted to be friends and that he needed space. This was done just before I
had taken 3 weeks off work (due to personal reasons) and I then decided to
ignore him because I was hurting so bad and …

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[6 Dec 2010 | No Comment | ]

Robby,
I’ve been reading your questions and answers and it seems to me you can
deliver me a pretty good answer.
So I was with my boyfriend for about a year…I broke it off with him and
then I felt the urge to call my guy friend that I had met at an old job.
Well me and him had had sex before, but only once. But before he and I had
sex we also hung out w/ each other, spent time pretty much as “friends”.
Well I also had feelings for him. But when I had …

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[15 Nov 2010 | No Comment | ]

Robby G. This is my situation.
I just ended my 6 year relationship with my girlfriend. I had been thinking
about it for a few months and finally did it. It was easy for me to do, not
easy for her to take. I talked with some girls, banged a couple randoms. A
bunch of new hot girls got hired at my work. I started to work on some. I
met this one girl. At first I just wanted to get drunk and bang her a few
times. We started talking I didn’t hit on her …

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[30 Oct 2010 | One Comment | ]

Dear Robby,
I wrote some time ago here about a guy Id met. We were initially sleeping
together but he was taking it super slow to get involved emotionally and
allow feelings into the arrangement. At first I thought we were just
f-buddies. But he denied that and said it was more. Very very gradually it
has indeed developed into more. We now spend a lot of time together and do
lots of couple stuff together. We have even had shows of jealousy on both
sides. However, he’s a really sexually active guy, practically horny all the
time. …

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[1 Oct 2010 | 2 Comments | ]

Robby,
I met a guy while I was on vacation and we ended up getting drunk and having
sex on the night we met. Then we saw each other the next night, hung out
again, and ended the night with sex again. The sex was amazing. Afterward,
on both nights, we got dressed, he walked me to my room, and kissed me goodnight. The next morning was the end of my trip and I had to leave him. We
saw each other and had an incredibly cute good bye. I …

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[17 Sep 2010 | One Comment | ]

I met this guy 1 yr ago. We really seem to like each other, but, he has
never really asked me out. He only calls me when he has been out drinking.
I feel that the truth comes out when someone has been drinking. Anyways,
that’s really the only time he calls is when he has been drinking. Sometimes
he will text me back if I text him, but normally, he won’t answer.
When he calls me, he always tells me how much he really likes me and thinks
I’m a very …

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[6 Sep 2010 | No Comment | ]

Hey Robby,
Three years ago I slept with my first guy without being in a relationship
with him. I was totally innocent and stupid about guys, and thought I could
turn him into a BF by sleeping with him. We didn’t date, but in time (due to
my emotional attachment) we became FB, for 2 whole years. Sometimes he gave
me mixed signals, he was affectionate and all, but never tried to date me.
We did a lot of sexual stuff for the first time together and somehow saw
each other mature (we are in our early …