Please advise. I went to Atl for a business trip a month ago and met this awesom man for fun when I was there. We had great time and amazing sex. I told him I am attached and he’s kind of in a complicated relationship as well. By the time he answered my ad, later one when we spent a night together, he told me that I was just a wrong person in a wrong place at a wrong time although he liked me. He said that he was frustrated with his ex-girlfriend who is still living with him. She went vacation with her ex-boyfriend. They had up and down relationship.

With us, we had really great sex and connection but it was it when I left Atl and back to my home town. A week later I invited him to go to NY with me since I’ll go there for a business trip. At that time he told me he wanted to see me again but he couldn’t, not becs of his ex-girlfriend but bcs of his business and other reasons. Then we left it at that. Just few days ago he texted me and said that he could make it to NY with me. We went on to plan a trip to go to NY next week. I am very excited to see him again. However, when I asked him, just out of curiousity that what reason he decided to come to NY with me, he said he will tell me later but not right now since he doesn’t want any drama with his ex-girlfriend bcs they still share a rental apt. I am going to see him in Ny this week. What do you think about the situation? I like him a lot although I know it’s not going anywhere since we live cross the country with each other and I am attached. I just want to have your opinion why he goes to NY with me while he didn’t want to go when I asked him few weeks ago? To avoid his exgirlfriend for few days, to challenge her? …etc? I am not jealous but it’s just uneasy feeling.

Thanks
Rachel