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20 June 2010 10 Comments

For those of you who are off dating for a while and just want to have fun with a bunch of sexy ladies without having to commit to any of them, but still reap the benefits on a regular, fuck-buddies are right for you. When you have decided that you want to sleep around and not have any emotional attachment involved, there are certain ways you must treat these women that differs from how you would treat a woman that you want to be your girlfriend. For starters, people in general are quite clingy individuals who require communal affection and emotional dependence, but once you have overcome that barrier and are ready to enjoy sex with no strings attached, then you have to follow certain guidelines to make your fuck-buddy relationships a success, while at the same time not create more drama for yourself by having the girl end up liking you as a boyfriend.

The Make-Up of a Fuck-Buddy

When a girl meets a man, he can send off various vibes, and if you do not know what vibes to send out then you’re in trouble. The man who wants to be her boyfriend shows that he is slightly attracted to her, acts very caring, funny, compassionate, and understanding. With these traits you’re sure to get her to like you and maybe even fall in love with you over time. However, if you want her to be your fuck-buddy, you must emulate different characteristics. If you want to sleep with her and not start a dating relationship, a woman is looking for someone fun, outgoing, self-reliant, apathetic, and slightly ambiguous. You shouldn’t reveal to her all of your thoughts and inner beliefs or aspirations, instead you want to enjoy each others’ company and have fun. Being the shoulder for her to “cry-on” or the one to hear all of her issues is the boyfriend’s job. You, on the other hand, are there to show her a good time and allow her to forget about any problem she may have, while doing it in a very subtle and nonchalant way.

Your Time is Valuable

When you have slept with a woman that you want to have as your fuck-buddy, you must make sure she understands that you two are not dating. You have to make this evident to her through various means. You shouldn’t call her daily and never call her just to talk. Only call when you want to set a date for when you will meet and fuck again. The less communication there is between you two when you are apart, the better. Once you are together, you must make sure it ends up in bed and not just out somewhere, because then it’s not a fuck-buddy but a girl you are seeing or dating. Of course, sometimes she will want to see you outside of the bedroom, and that is when you invite her out with your friends. This way you will be able to portray to her that she means nothing more than a friend… with some benefits. When you are out with her and your friends, you must not give her extra attention and you should treat her like you do any of your other friends: that includes no affectionate kisses or hand-holding, no footsies under the table, and no over-protection from other guys hitting on her. Just stay cool and allow yourself to be yourself and how you typically are with your friends. Through this method she will get the hint that in public you two are simply friends, but you just are sleeping on the side, which to you is nothing special but a purely physical attraction.

How Will She React?

Many think that a woman will quickly get the hint that you are “using” her for just sex and there is nothing more than that there and she will break things off. This is not even close to the truth. If from the start you act the way I outlined above, then she should pick up on the fact that you are not interested in a formal relationship and were always interested in having her as a fuck-buddy. If after that she gets a little bit too involved and starts acting clingy or creates drama, then you must buy my eBook to find out how to deal with that.

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  • Tommy said:

    Man, that’s cool. I’m going to get it now and let you know what I think later. Thanks!

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  • C. Parker said:

    I like this post, it goes into a little detail of a subject I have interest in. I’ve had a fuck-buddy before but ended up screwing it up. I think I could have done much better if I knew this information.

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  • Kalie said:

    Ha, I’m a girl and I definitely enjoyed reading this, mainly because I’ve had a few male “buddies” myself. Being from New York, sex is a very casual thing. But, I have to say, it’s not always the female being the “clingy” one. 😉

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    Robby G Reply:

    @Kalie: Thanks for your comment, and you’re absolutely right. There are men that can be as or even more clingy than women.

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    lauren Reply:

    now of i have to move out of the damn state cause there are to many people like you

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    lauren Reply:

    eww disgusting im from new york to and i dont do this nor do i support it

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  • freakk said:

    owww…….. no plans 4 a buddy actually…….i wuld like to have a life with my future hubby ..no guys allowed other than my husband

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  • lauren said:

    i think this is digusting i hope you all contract a disease and one you cant get rid of go learn your lesson

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