Comments on: Get Over that Wretched Feeling of Jealousy http://www.shiteilike.com/get-over-that-wretched-feeling-of-jealousy/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 23:50:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Shaun http://www.shiteilike.com/get-over-that-wretched-feeling-of-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-79917 Shaun Sat, 14 Jan 2012 19:05:06 +0000 http://www.shiteilike.com/?p=2474#comment-79917 "Find His Flaws I know this doesn’t sound ethical, but when you’re desperate to stop feeling jealous, it may sometimes help to think about all of his flaws and force yourself to dislike him. If you’re willing to stop your relationship with him and being emotionally indifferent about him isn’t working, it could be time to make yourself hate him. Think about all the flaws you can find about him and focus on that. Over time those are going to the only things you will see in him and won’t care at all about what he does with other women." Id like to say that this is terrible advice. If you are feeling jealous of you're fuck buddy, then there is clearly more then a friends with benefits relationship at work. Forcing yourself to hate your fuck buddy will just make you feel terrible. Not only will you have lost them as a sexual partner, you will have lost them as a friend. But its of course, this column is aimed at women. And of course, woe betide any man that gets in the way of a jealous woman. If a man did this to a woman, she would probably inform local papers and request a public castration. But its perfectly okay for a woman to do this to a man. Typical. Appalling advice, you have no business writing columns of this nature. “Find His Flaws

I know this doesn’t sound ethical, but when you’re desperate to stop feeling jealous, it may sometimes help to think about all of his flaws and force yourself to dislike him. If you’re willing to stop your relationship with him and being emotionally indifferent about him isn’t working, it could be time to make yourself hate him. Think about all the flaws you can find about him and focus on that. Over time those are going to the only things you will see in him and won’t care at all about what he does with other women.”

Id like to say that this is terrible advice. If you are feeling jealous of you’re fuck buddy, then there is clearly more then a friends with benefits relationship at work. Forcing yourself to hate your fuck buddy will just make you feel terrible. Not only will you have lost them as a sexual partner, you will have lost them as a friend. But its of course, this column is aimed at women. And of course, woe betide any man that gets in the way of a jealous woman. If a man did this to a woman, she would probably inform local papers and request a public castration. But its perfectly okay for a woman to do this to a man.

Typical.

Appalling advice, you have no business writing columns of this nature.

]]> By: Maydaygyday http://www.shiteilike.com/get-over-that-wretched-feeling-of-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-45918 Maydaygyday Tue, 21 Jun 2011 20:55:13 +0000 http://www.shiteilike.com/?p=2474#comment-45918 Hello all! I like this forum, i organize many compelling people on this forum.!!! Large Community, respect all! Hello all! I like this forum, i organize many compelling people on this forum.!!!

Large Community, respect all!

]]> By: Robby G http://www.shiteilike.com/get-over-that-wretched-feeling-of-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-12318 Robby G Thu, 22 Apr 2010 14:25:59 +0000 http://www.shiteilike.com/?p=2474#comment-12318 @Marie: This is the worst thing that can happen when you want someone to be just your fuck-buddy. All this talk of love is guaranteed not be just a home-girl thing anymore, especially in the moments he chooses to use it. They're not just slipping out, he seriously means it. In these instances, whatever you do will end up hurting him, unless of course you return the love. But since you don't feel the same love for him it will be difficult to not completely destroy him. The only method I could think of, which I know would work on me if I ever was in his situation is if the girl changed the way she acts into something that I find repulsive. This may end your overall fuck-buddy relationship with him, but at least no one will be as hurt in the end. Figure out the characteristics in a girl that purely disgusts him, for example, trash-talking sluts or clingy girls that constantly call him or depressive girls that always ruin the mood, and incorporate that when you are around him. He will discover "the real you" and will reassess his love for you. This way he will not get too hurt but at the same time you may lose a fuck-buddy. So it really depends on what you want to accomplish now. @Marie: This is the worst thing that can happen when you want someone to be just your fuck-buddy. All this talk of love is guaranteed not be just a home-girl thing anymore, especially in the moments he chooses to use it. They’re not just slipping out, he seriously means it. In these instances, whatever you do will end up hurting him, unless of course you return the love. But since you don’t feel the same love for him it will be difficult to not completely destroy him. The only method I could think of, which I know would work on me if I ever was in his situation is if the girl changed the way she acts into something that I find repulsive. This may end your overall fuck-buddy relationship with him, but at least no one will be as hurt in the end. Figure out the characteristics in a girl that purely disgusts him, for example, trash-talking sluts or clingy girls that constantly call him or depressive girls that always ruin the mood, and incorporate that when you are around him. He will discover “the real you” and will reassess his love for you. This way he will not get too hurt but at the same time you may lose a fuck-buddy. So it really depends on what you want to accomplish now.

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