How to Tell if He Likes You
Well, there is this guy, we met a little over a year ago through a mutual
friend, and we began a friends with benefits relationship. I started to like
him but he told me he had messed with another girl, so we stopped talking we
just started talking again and a few weeks ago, we began the friend w/
benefits relationship again. Well I have always liked him, but not sure how
he feels about me…. I mean like earlier it snowed and he rode a mopad just
to see me.. I really need to know if it sounds like it could be more or not,
and if so how could i approach being more? He always comes in and hugs me
and kisses me and kisses me before he leaves… just really confused!
When you say he drove through the snow just to see you do you actually “see” you or to have sex with you? Because that makes a big difference. I’m not exagerating–driving a moped through snow is a minor inconvenience when it comes to getting a fuck out of it. However, if it is actually just to see and be with you (without intentions of getting laid) then he does think of you as someone more than just a friend with benefits.
Also, the kisses and hugs could just be part of his method to keep you around so you don’t think he’s not into you anymore. I don’t want to sound bleak, but I personally have in the past told my fuck buddy that I’ve slept with another girl just so the current fuck buddy wouldn’t think that there is anything more between us than just the sex. However, when I’ve cheated on my girlfriend, I would try my hardest for her not to find out. Telling a fuck buddy you’ve slept with another girl could ease the relationship a bit because she understands that there is nothing serious between them.
What Should You Do To Make Sure
A sure way to make sure whether he likes you more than just a friend with benefits is to look for the following signs:
Now, if he doesn’t do any or close to any of those then the chances are he only likes you as a friend with benefits and isn’t looking for a relationship. Over the next few days try to pick up on the listed criteria and you’ll know if he likes you more than a friend with benefits.