A conversation is a two-way street and therefore both should do an equal amount of talking. This rule, however, can be strayed from when talking to a girl. I defenitley, support Robby G’s, ‘let her do most of the talking’ comment aslong as the guy appears to be listening, and makes sure to throw in a comment here and there. Everyone loves to talk about themself, and this is no exception for girls.

This not only applies to girls but to both sexes as well. Letting the other person do more of the talking, and talking in terms of the other persons interest will ensure a higher degree of likability towards you.

When first meeting a girl, some of them may be shy and not want to talk about themself. To get the ball rolling the guy must break her barriers, by making her comfortable. In order to do this he must talk about himself, prove he is an easy going guy, as well remember to be comical. Once she starts to feel more comfortable and begins to talk about herself, don’t interrupt her. Go ahead and ask her questions. She will love to talk about herself when she is comfortable.