I hope this get through to you. I am Asian, so pardon my english if it
doesn’t sound right.
Here goes my story. Me and a co-worker started off as FBs. We would hook up for a few times a
week initially, sex was good and it goes on for about a month.
A little about this girl, she is very cold on the outside, and doesn’t show
her emotions easily. She loses interest in guys easily. But at times she does go for a one night
stand. That’s what she told me about her past. She loves sex.
So we started off the FBs relation, and it was all good.
Till i think i didn’t control my emotions and i guess i fall for her.
I made it known to her that i like her, but she reinforce that it’s only sex.
And i am not her type. It’s quite hurting with her comments but it’s
We still continue the sex, but it gets less and less. And my feelings for
her grew stronger and stronger.
I will keep thinking of what she is doing, if she is with some other guys,
if she is sleeping with any other guys.
I will text her, but either she go cold with the reply. One or Two words
Or she will not reply at all.
It’s very miserable for me.
One day, she told me we should stop this. And I didn’t agree. But she
insisted. And she was very cold and mean to me after that. We didn’t really
talk a lot in the office and she will be very mean to me when we talk.
I still msg her and care for her. But she didn’t bother much about me.
This goes on for about a month, and suddenly one day, she told me she was
I went through the abortion with her, pay for it. And care for her as what i
After the abortion, we grew closer, and we resume the FB relation.
She confess to me that she actually start to like me a little, but really
not enough for me to be her boyfriend.
We will hang out more often, go home together, or hook up in my house or
We hang out during weekends too. And talk in the car for hours whenever i
send her home.
I am so happy that things have suddenly changed and she is so nice to me like
She will text me with caring messages and will tell me she misses me and
miss my cuddle and stuff.
I am immersing in this. and i really cannot believe whats happening. I took
her for my girlfriend. We were each other’s priority.
Then suddenly for no apparent reasons, after about 1 month, she go cold with
me, and tell me we should stop this. It’s not right. She stop texting me,
rejected my dates to go out. And keep going out with friends. Not replying my
She doesnt like me “that way”.
I can’t say much no matter how hurt i was.
And for some reason, i have to leave the company, and i hate the fact that
i cannot see her anymore.
Now its about 2 weeks that it happen. I am so emotionally hurt. I can’t see
her anymore and things just ended.
I text her constantly asking her stupid stuff.
But all her reply is either one word reply or she will not even reply.
She rejected all my dates to go out.
One saturday, i sent her a text, telling her how much i missed her, and
the times we had, our roller coaster relationship.
But i have to agree that things must end and it’s best to do it.
Today, she ask me to meet her for supper for some work related issues she
wants to ask me.
Please help me on this, i really miss her. Is there anything i can do to turn
Sorry if its long.