Hi Robby, I was hoping you could help me out…
Since about Christmas of 2009 I’ve been hooking up with the same guy. We’d
meet almost every day of the week, drink, have sex, and that was it. Around
the begining of February, we stopped drinking and started talking to fill
the void. We get along well, and have tons of inside jokes. He’d come over
to my house each night almost, we’d watch TV for a while, have sex, and goof
off for the rest of the night. I started to develop feelings for him, but I
didn’t have the guts to say so. I thought that if I did, he would leave
But in the middle of April, he left me waiting for him in the rain for two
hours…Because he was having sex with a girl in the back of his car, the
same car we’d been sitting in for months together. We both ended up crying,
and he said he’d rather have me than her. After that, I told him I couldn’t
have sex with him in his car anymore. Suprisingly, he stuck around. We’d
walk around near where I live and find things to do.
I asked about the girl, and he said that he didn’t really talk to her,
because her SIM card was broken.
Since then, we’ve had sex again. Things started to go back to normal until I
was about to get kicked out of school for a stupid mistake. If I got kicked
out, my parents would most likely kick me out of the house, and I might
never be able to see him. For the two days before I got kicked out, he came
over. We both cried and slept a lot…Holding hands, cuddling like always.
Things worked out, and I can still see him. But he dropped the L bomb. I
told him it was mutual, but I’m still unhappy with the situation. At any
point, he could be having sex with someone else, breaking my heart all over
again. I’ve been having trouble sleeping and eating because of the last
incident. I know he has every right to, and that I can’t say anything about
My basic question is, do you think he wants something more than just a fuck
buddy? Do you think I should tell him that I can’t do it anymore if it will
only remain a simple hook up?
Thanks in advance…I hope you can help me!