I have been a fuck buddy with this guy for the past year..it started out as
just an after the bars/late night kind of get together. After the second
month he introduced me to his friends one time (as we don’t hang out w/ the
same people) at his house for a cookout and he started inviting me over
during the day, and he also invited me to go out of town with him for the
weekend. Well the night that he asked me he told me that he is starting to
like me but sees the age difference as a problem (20 yrs..he said: “what I
haven’t experienced yet and what he already has” is the problem). We didn’t
talk for that week prior to this “vacation” and I didn’t go and he never
texted me. We lost touch for a little bit and then he text me out of the
blue. We hooked up again and has been pretty consistent since then but just
recently he has told me that he wants to start hanging out more. I have
decided to put feelings on hold until he can actually prove to me there is
something more than what is actually going on. He texts me everyday, he is
always the first to text me, and this happens even if we both know we aren’t
going to be hooking up at all that day. Since he has told me he “wants to
hang out more” I have hung out with him twice in public (which never
happened before). The first time I met up with him and his two friends and
while we were there he made some kind of comment like he was talking to his
friends before I got there and they had responded “..well shes coming here
to see you so that tells you something”. That night after we got done in the
bedroom he went to the bathroom to go clean up and when he came back in I
was all dressed with my coat and purse, ready to go. He said, “Oh, I take it
you’re leaving?” so I said, “Isn’t that what we always do?” Then he asked me
to come downstairs and hang out for a little bit so I did and we started
watching T.V., he told me he was going to teach me the humor of the funny
show we were watching. Also, that night, he told me he was trying to get me
to text him back faster because I guess I take awhile to text back
sometimes. And just recently we met up at a bar, he came with his friends
and I got there after he did, when he realized I was there he left his
friends and came and hung out with me the rest of the night. He introduced
me to more of his friends and I introduced him to mine and we ended up going
home that night together. I couldn’t sleep very well at his house (not
feeling to good to drive home) so every couple of hours I kept waking up and
he was right there next to me, not cuddling but right there. Then when I
woke up to go to the bathroom and got back into bed, he started cuddling (he
never does this..ever!). He still texts everyday but sometimes its the usual
“I’m horny” text or like yesterday it was just saying hi and he told me to
be careful driving (we got a lot of snow). He also has started to kiss me
goodbye, this began after he told me he wanted to “hang out more”. I need
some help, I get the feeling he does like me for more than what is going on
but sometimes he gets caught up in other stuff too, as do I. From the time
he has told me he wants to start “hanging out more” to now has been about a
month and we are making some progress, but I am still unsure if he was just
saying that or not. Got any advice?

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I’ve been seeing this guy for 6 months. We used to work together I met him
on my first day and we had an instant connection. We worked for long hrs
alone for a whole week
And soon enough we were going out together in secret,we didn’t have sex for
a while like a month but I aslept over his house n we always messed around.
He was always texting
Me and telling me how amazing I was then we finally had sex but the boss
suspected about us and threatened both of us with our jobs so we decided to
stop it for a while but
Coudnt do it and we started basically just having sex acasionally and no
longer go out or do any of the things we used to do and I told him I didn’t
want to be just fuck buddies
But I didn’t stay away so we are still just fuck buddies but I’m falling
for him really bad and I don’t know what to do and how I can get him to feel
the same for me and maybe
We can be together. please help me with some advice.

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MDMA got you feeling like a champion. I’ve gotta say that life is great. I’ve been going back and forth from Canada to Netherlands and back and forth again and life has been amazing in both countries. Sure, Amsterdam is 100 times better, but seeing family and friends in Toronto hasn’t been that bad either. I’ve been feeling real good lately not because I’ve been drinking–which is something I decreased severely–but I’ve been only focusing on positive things in life. I’ve been listening to positive music such as Young Forever and watching movies such as Ferris Bueller’s Day Off. Basically, I’ve realized that life isn’t about how much money you have in your pocket, but how much joy you receive from everyday life.
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So I was surfing the web and came across your blog and must say I have
enjoyed reading it. I have recently (few months) gotten back together with
my old fb from years ago. He decided to end it back then but we kept in
touch over the years talking off and on. I always let him call me. He
happened to call me up this fall and we started talking regular for a while
until we ended up back as fuck buddies. We are totally cool talking about
everything (even the hot clerk at the store) but until now it hasn’t
bothered me (which that doesn’t). But also until now, besides his baby
mama, I have been his only encounter and he mine. I felt we were getting too
regular meeting up 3 times a week plus him calling a lot, so when I got
sick, I took it as an opportunity for us to back off a little. To make a
long story shorter, by fate (the weather), it ended up being a week and a
half break. He ended up having a one night stand and called to tell me the
next day (instead of us meeting up). I got mad after talking and have been
jealous ever since. But I don’t know why I am jealous. I don’t want to
be, and I don’t feel I should. I have been perfect at checking my feelings
until now. We will never date so I am totally confused. The only thing I can
think of is I was positive he was clean before but can’t be now. But I
don’t think that is it. I was hoping you might have some insight to help
me reel my feelings back into check.

Thanks so much for your blog it has been insightful.

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Hi Robby G. Ive asked for your advice before (Some serious relationships
are best left alone). I need some more advice from you, continuing from the
last post. So i decided to take this girls offer. Im genuinely in love with
her, so tonight we were hanging out and what not and anytime i wanted to
make a move on her i would start to double guess myself… I wanted to but
something inside me is just holding me back. I dont know what it is. For
instance, we’re both sitting in my car and the perfect opportunity comes
along for a kiss. Shes waiting for it and i do nothing! I normally dont
have any problems, im usually the one to make the first move with previous
relationships… I dont know what it is but i just freeze and look away…
I want this girl so bad, but im hesitating! She even told me this is the
chance for me to kiss her… and what do i do… NOTHING! Im so mad at
myself right now… Plus i just gave her the impression that i dont like her
or something… Im very confused… Any advice on what is wrong with me
right now?

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So, i’ve just recently started a physical relationship with this guy. We’ve
known each other for about a year now and have in the last 3-4 months gotten
to know each other alot and on different levels.

We talk about everything and anything very honestly and openly. He’s a guy
who reads people very well, very smart and confident and has a reputation
for being a playa. We hang out with his mates and i get along with them
brilliantly. I’m chilled and relaxed about everything, never push or nag or
demand, the way i’m going at it is a friendship with a sexual attraction.

In the beginning, i thought i had strong feelings for him but the more we
progress i’m just realising i’m having lots of fun and not feeling any need
for more. What confuses me is since we text every day at least once, even
before we we’re having sex we would hang out 3 times a week and have so much
fun. It’s taken us a really really long time to get to this point because we
both just went with the flow…

He’s told me before we started having sex that being a sexually active and
generally casual person, he understands the damage sex and physical intimacy
can cause and he’s not entirely certain he’s good for me. The other night he
asked wouldn’t i prefer someone i can introduce and spend time with my
mates…not a fickle young man that is interested in himself and doing nasty
things to me? And to give him the restraining order when the other fish
swims by.

I’ve basically told him that i’m a person who needs space and wouldn’t
dream of taking a boyfriend to a work function because that’s my time with
my friends. I prefer to be picked up when i’m done, taken on an adventure
and having fun times.

I think i’m just a bit unsure as he keeps bringing the topic up of worried
that i’ll fall for him and i just kinda assumed that a fuck buddy/benefit
friend you would leave that stuff out of it and wouldn’t care….

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