Is it actually possible to be JUST Fuck buddies with someone?
My short answer is NO! Surprised I think that? Let me explain. A Fuck buddy arrangement is very volatile by nature and invariably someone breaks the rules and it ends up getting too complicated. People are destined to connect with each other, especially when they are bumping uglies. Girls have figured this out and that why if they consider you to be a good enough friend, they won’t risk it buy introducing sex into the equation. Then it’s off Blue Balls central for the dude, cursed to listen to stories about her cat for eternity.
A Fuck buddy arrangement can work well for a short while and following these tips can help you postpone the inevitable for as long as possible….. Read the rest of this entry »
hi there robby. i really need your help on a woman. I’m BEGGIN lol!!
i like her, and she likes me BUT she has a BF!
we met online and became close. I was there for her when her life was hard (i
did some smooth talking here)
I met up with her and on the 1st “date” I jumped into bed with
her and we DID it ALL except sex, we both kinda stopped because her parents would be
home soon!!!We both declared our love for each other and I could tell we meant it.
But she has been with her man for a year and they really like each other and she’s
basically at the point of choosing. How do I make her choose me?? please help
’cause i love her!
hey Robby..you have to excuse me for my bad language i don’t speak English
very well… I met this guy 8 months ago…he asked me out several times and
we had a lot of fun ..he is a funny sexy guy and i laugh at his jokes all the
time. We were both getting out of bad relationship, his girl left and got
married so did my boyfriend, so we were in the same position …he told me
he’s not ready for a serious relationship though he is so attracted to me he
keeps telling me how beautiful and sexy i am. I liked him a lot so i lied and
I told him I’m not ready either. He didn’t call me a lot but we were talking
from time to time he travels a lot because he is a pilot. On the sixth date he
took me to his place and we had oral sex (i am a virgin because this is our
tradition) then he traveled and we were talking on MSN till he got back
and he called me to ask me out and then cancel our dates over and over. After
that he was just taking me to his place right away .. And when i call him
he doesn’t answer but when he wants me he calls me. The last time was amazing
I spent the night with him, we talked, danced, we watched a movie, he made me
smoke weed for my first time and then he cooked for me. He was so gentle,
romantic and he kissed me hugged me a lot just like a lover and then he was
holding me so tight when we slept ..in the morning he got up so fast so he
can meet his friends. I called him in the night he didn’t pick up. I
felt so bad so i texted him that i can’t continue like that I’m starting to
fall for him and i know he doesn’t want a relationship so i better stop this
before i get hurt. Now a week has passed and he didn’t call..should i
forget him knowing that i really love him..please tell me what to do ..i
can’t tell anyone about this so i need your advice..
Hey,
So I’m a 20 year old girl. I was never really interested in relationships until
recently, but now all I want is to be touched by a guy who cares about me. I’ve
been pretty deprived of touch for a while, since when I was younger, I shied
away from it. But now, when I get it, I really like it. A couple of weeks ago, I
was hanging out with a bunch of friends at their apartment and sitting on a
couch with a good platonic friend. He was a bit drunk and gets pretty
affectionate when he is drunk, and i was really tired, so I leaned against him,
and he put his arm around me. For about an hour, while we were all just talking,
he kept rubbing my arm and my side and leaning his head on mine.
A week later, I was home for a break, and I was with a bunch of friends in my
basement watching tv. A different guy friend of mine (who was also drinking) and
I were sharing a seat. At first, it was because there weren’t enough seats for
everyone there, but even after a few people left and there was extra room, he
kept insisting that we share. We have always been platonic– he’s a frat boy and
has always been into hookups, and I am completely not into that. But anyway, for
a couple of hours, I was sharing this seat and lying partially on top of him,
while he put his arm around me and stroked my arm and tickled my belly.
I guess the question is, am I wrong for doing this? Am I sending the wrong
impression? I’m a little slow and have not yet been kissed… and the delay has
made me pretty self-conscious about being physical with anyone. So I figure that
the more I cuddle with guys, the more comfortable I will be with going further
with them… and also, it just feels really good to be held. Thoughts?
So I went to college with this guy about 9 years ago. We were friends but
nothing close. I even used to be fwb with a guy that lived near him and used
to use him as an excuse to stop by. A little over a year ago, I realized we
had both moved to the same state, so I messaged him on Facebook to meet up.
We had a few drinks and then I went home. As I was driving back he’s texting
how GREAT it was to see me and how he had a crush on me in college. He never
made a move in college and he was kind of one of those secret man-whores.So several months go by and we hardly talk…I mean like the few texts where
I say hi, he rarely messages back. On valentine’s day, he texts me that he
hopes I had a really great day. I’m at a bar with friends and some of my guy
friends take my phone and send him some scandalous messages asking him to
come over to my house. He did! I was like whatever and we had sex. I was
kind of drunk so I can’t imagine it being that great but for some reason he
thought it was.So we hardly talk again after that then I move again for my job.
Coincidentally, he applies for a job here too. A few months after I move, he
texts me that they are flying him here for an interview and he’s talking
pre-interview sex and all. We go out to dinner and for some drinks the night
before his interview and we meet this guy in town on business, tell him our
story of how we know each other and the guy is like, “Don’t you guys think
it might be fate that you’ve ended up in the same state three times through
9 years??” I said no we’re friends and all of a sudden he’s like “I
know…it might be..” then after the guy repeats his fate theory a few times
and me insisting friendship, my college bud submits to “ya, no…we’re just
friends.” we go back to his hotel room and he doesn’t even try to have sex
with me and says good night. Then he gets offered the job the next day and
he “can’t wait to be here with me.”I’m good with fwb, but I don’t want to ruin a long term friendship. I mean,
we have sooo similar personalities and interests. We could be best friends.
We are so similar. I don’t want to fuck up our friendship. We’re both also
very family oriented and know we’re at that point to settle down. Do you
think he’s thinking about me long term? What do I do??? I don’t want to ruin
a good friendship!
I lost my virginity to this guy I’ve known for a few months. I really like
him He’s a hard worker and a real country guy and I’m a real country girl.
He considers us fuck buddies but I would like to be more than that. He says
he likes me but I’m guessing he’s not ready for a relationship. Even if I
knew of ways to ease him into a relationship slowly would be nice. I mean…
There is also a possibility he wouldn’t want to go public with a
relationship to a girl like me. I’, 5’3 and 199 pounds, so I’m a hefty girl,
and the self conscious factor is there. I’m also thinking that he doesn’t
want a relationship yet because he still doesn’t know me all too well.
However there’s the whole factor of he just wants me for sex. I’m a muddle
of thoughts. He kissed me so much during our times together when we were
alone (we only had sex once by the way). I mean he kissed me more than my
previous boyfriends would. He pulls away with such a sweet smile on his face
that I just melt over too. I asked him to think about him being my
boyfriend and he agreed to think about it, yet that could just be it; a
thought. Am I confused on what to do? Yea I am.
Ok so i met this guy 5 months ago. We went out on a couple of dates then we
started sleeping together. He ditched me twice before, in which case I cut
him off. Then like 2 weeks later he tells me he misses me (mind you I had
seen him go in his house with another girl b/c my friend lives a few blocks
down from him, but he doesn’t know that). So like an idiot I budged, saw him
again and started hitting it again. This time around no dates, only
straight to business then home. Then around his birthday I told him we
always just have sex and he said you’re right let’s hang out…so we started
hanging out and then having sex. We also started spending some sundays
together in bed watching movies, having sex, and just cuddling. Then in
public he would kiss me and put his arms around me and whatnot. Until This
past sunday I text him, there was no reply so I called…no answer. 15 mins
later he texts me saying “Don’t call me anymore I came back with my wife” i
said “ok, were you ever even separated?” no reply for 5 mins so i said “i
knew you were hiding something have a good life asshole” then he said “no
baby that wasn’t for you, that was for some girl that was bothering me ” i
said “whatever don’t talk to me anymore this is way too fishy” then he said
ok but called back to explain. I kinda calmed down and he said I’ll call you
back in a few, but didn’t call back until 3 days later! In which case I told
him to delete my number and do without me. He asked why,and I said
“sunday, i understand you’re doing you but i don’t need to know what you’re
doing on the side. big turn off” and he said “ok if that’s what you want then
ok”….Did I do the right thing? or should I have just stuck it out being
that he made it clear from the getgo he didn’t want a commitment “for now”.
Help! I’m stressing
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