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[8 Mar 2010 | One Comment | ]

I’m hoping you can share some insight on why men don’t want to commit to a
relationship. I’ve been seeing this guy who is 29 years old for almost 5
months. It’s really more of a FB situation. He has made it clear from the
beginning that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship and isn’t
interested in having a girlfriend. When does that thinking change for guys
like that? I mean is it just whenever they’ve decided they have sewn all
their oats? Do they wake up one morning and decide that maybe it is time to
get into something serious? Is it really about when the “right one” comes
along? Does a guy who doesn’t want a commitment ever really change his mind
about it?

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Step Up Your Game »

[4 Mar 2010 | 20 Comments | ]

Well, there is this guy, we met a little over a year ago through a mutual
friend, and we began a friends with benefits relationship. I started to like
him but he told me he had messed with another girl, so we stopped talking we
just started talking again and a few weeks ago, we began the friend w/
benefits relationship again. Well I have always liked him, but not sure how
he feels about me…. I mean like earlier it snowed and he rode a mopad just
to see me.. I really need to know if it sounds like it could be more or not,
and if so how could i approach being more? He always comes in and hugs me
and kisses me and kisses me before he leaves… just really confused!

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General Advice »

[3 Mar 2010 | 7 Comments | ]

I was recently thinking about where my blog has headed over the past year or so and realized that it’s developed into something far beyond than what I ever expected. Instead of talking about random shite I like, it has become the go-to blog for dating (and fuck buddy) advice for both women and men. I do still publish posts on things I enjoy and suggestions on how men can imporve their lifestyle into something great, yet my main goal with it is to provide sufficient dating advice for people. So ever since @racheallee (on Twitter) titled me as a modern day “Love Specialist”, I decided to run with it and even though the domain name stays as ShiteILike.com (because I’m not too bright when it comes to changing the url while not losing all of my current links) I decided to instead implement the idea I stole from Kelly Diels from Cleavage, who uses a different blog title from her domain name. As you’ve probably noticed by now, I’ve changed my blog title to “Ask Robby G: Every Question’s Got an Answer” and you can even access the site by typing into your url box askrobbyg.com and you’ll still be able to land on this site. I’ve also got this fucking cool new logo with the broken heart being heeled, which I know you all love and wish you thought of yourself. 😉
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Relationship Tips »

[1 Mar 2010 | One Comment | ]

hi rob

i just came across your blog and love it, but felt like i needed some
help.

Here we go i have a bf who lives abroad and i met at work during an
internship some guy that i started to see after i ended up my internship.

we do get along well but i gotta admit i feel attracted to him, we took
this bad habit to email randomly at work everyday and im now always hoping
and waiting for these little pointless emails.

fact is drunk i told him i liked him and i even texted him…

he’s quite older than me and my friends in front of my confusion towards
him because i feel so attracted to him said it was just pointless because he
probably only wanted some potential sex with me and that i was his ego
flattering because im 22 and he is 30.

i have this weird high school girl admiration to him so i dunno….

he asked me if i wanted to go on a week end together.

do u think he sees me as a potential fuck? or friends?
i like to think we are friends but im sure it’s not the case

please help me

thanks

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Step Up Your Game »

[25 Feb 2010 | 8 Comments | ]

I have to admit that even though I have my ways when it comes to talking and flirting and getting girls to come back to my place for a pleasant evening, there are times when I do get to feeling some kinds of insecurities. The insecurities I tend to get consist of the following two thoughts: “Did I do something wrong?” and “Does she not like me?” I’ve come to recognize that these sort of insecurities are normal for men and they tend to flare up when I’ve taken out a girl on a second date and we still haven’t slept with each other, or if I text message a girl and she doesn’t text or call back that same day. If that happens there is a chance that the girl doesn’t want to talk to me that day or doesn’t like me or that I’ve done something wrong, but most times I tend to put a lot more thought into the situation than I should and allow my insecurities to grow to a point where I end up looking at the girl with a completely negative light even when she does call back. Those insecurities build up to a point where I’m imagining worse scenarios than are even possible. Then I realized that there are in fact ways to stop having this type of insecure mindset when I am dealing with a girl I still haven’t slept with.
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Step Up Your Game »

[24 Feb 2010 | 2 Comments | ]

Hi I am a unhappily married women. I think the last time we had sex was
almost a year ago.
I have met a man whom is separated
we started having sexy texts and liasons when ever we can get away.
He has said no illusions no problems meaning we are two people who enjoy
sex with each other very much and that’s it.
I can’t get him out of my head.
When we are together and done our session he talks about himself and isn’t
interested in really anything I have to say, to me that’s why I’m in this
situation I already have a man who doesn’t listen to me. In order for me to
really open up sexually because we are trying to make me squirt I need to
be heard at least some interest in me.
Excuse the grammar not very good at articulating. I think you get the just.
I know this is morally wrong. I’m obviously not looking for a relationship.

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Relationship Tips »

[23 Feb 2010 | One Comment | ]

I was somewhat dating this amazing guy for about a week when I invited him
over to spend the night and we ended up fucking. it was amazing sex. after
that we hung out almost everyday and 75% of the time slept together for
about 2 months.
He told his friends about me and would kiss me in public everyonce in a
while but we never really went on real dates. He is very busy going to
school and working so I understand.
We never talked about how we felt at all except one time when I was
sleeping with him and he said “I love you” as he was getting into it. I
figured it kind of came out and he didn’t mean it so nothing was said back
and nothing was said about it.
This is where I made a mistake and got a little too drunk and slept with
someone else. I didn’t think he would find out though I knew he knows the
person and I knew he would be angry so I didn’t tell him.
I’m not sure when, but he found out and since then stopped talking to me
completely and slept with someone else (perhaps more than one person, I only
know of one and I’m pretty sure he slept with them so I would find out).
I finally got the courage to apologize, though over text a few weeks after
he slept with someone else, and he kind of accepted it and blew it off.
since then about once weekly we text or call each other, meet up, and sleep
with each other. it seems like everythings almost back to normal when were
together but when were not i feel like he wants nothing to do with me.
recently he’s been seeming less and less interested and any contact is
mostly on my part.
I really truly have deep feelings for him and it’s now been 4 months
since we first began seeing each other. I want to begin a serious
relationship and I don’t want it with anyone but him. I’m afraid any
serious talk will scare him away right away and we still to this day have
never talked about our feelings, etc. this week he did not reach out to me
at all nor did I to him in fear of him being annoyed. I can’t go on like
this but I can’t get the courage to say something. what should I do?

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