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[7 Nov 2009 | 9 Comments | ]

A wise man once said to me ‘never drink wine from a screw top bottle, respect your elders and take your time looking for love’

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The latter part being the most prominent for me. My name is Adam, founder and author of the male interest blog blokebuddy.com and today I’m going to give you some of the most valuable dating advice my experience can offer.

Basics:
OK so you have seen a woman at work, met someone online or you fancy the checkout girl at your local store, and you want to ask her out, right? But there are some basic principles you should follow before doing so, let me divulge. Read the rest of this entry »

Dating, General Advice »

[5 Nov 2009 | 37 Comments | ]

For those who may not know, Hank Moody is the main character of the show Californication, and if you really want I gave a short review about him and the show in this link. Now for those who do know something about Hank, is that he is the smoothest person you’ll ever see with the ladies on television these days. I noticed five characteristics about him that distinguishes him from many, many men in society who try to get women. And in all honesty, even when you read books about “the game” and being a pro at the pick-up game, I really tend to laugh at guys who take that too seriously, because the truth is, simplicity is key. In those other books or shows or websites on picking up women, they give advice on making you into a fucking tool who thinks every word through and does things that women expect them to do. And it may work for a night or so, but then it just gets extremely boring, and I noticed that it tends to work only on the most shallow and sluttiest girls out there without any broader concept on life except thinking about where to pencil in her next nail polishing appointment. And those girls are fun sometimes, but when you try to approach a more intelligent woman with those same antics, you end up failing miserably. What people like Hank Moody are able to do, nonetheless, is get women of all types. And his secret? Well, here’s what I picked up from his characteristics that I think can be easily applied and you don’t have to turn yourself into a robot, but instead feel more free than ever before during your approach to women. Read the rest of this entry »

Dating »

[1 Nov 2009 | 2 Comments | ]

I want to ask this guy to go out with me. How should I ask him?

Leyendo
I received this very simple question from a reader the other day and though I saw the simple form the question was written in compared to the leangthy questions with background information I tend to get, this one is much harder to answer and needs much more time than any of those. To get straight to the point, there are variety of ways a woman can ask a guy to go out with her and I will discuss the ones I believes are simply the best. I’ve already written a post for men who want to know how to ask a girl out, but now it’s time to flip the tables and show the best way for a woman to get a man she likes to go out on a date with her.

What’re You Doing Tonight?

The simplest and one of the most effective ways for a woman to ask a man out is to be indirect about the whole situation yet let him know exactly what she mean. If a woman says something like, “What’re you doing tonight?” this gives the implication that she’s interested, but at the same time there is room for rejection. Read the rest of this entry »

Travel Stories »

[30 Oct 2009 | 5 Comments | ]

Last week I went on a trip to Vienna from Amsterdam. I spent 200 US dollars to go from Dam to Austria to Russia and back to Dam. Now, I’d like to share my thoughts on the beautiful city of Vienna. It has the nicest architecture I’ve ever seen in any city, it’s like walking through a fucking museum. Yes, it’s great. However, what I did notice, which really put a cramp in my style was that it has a bunch of fucking ugly people. It looked like a bunch of inbreds put into a city and left to roam around. Me, being the smart motherfucker that I am, did not end up renting a room in advance for me to sleep in for the night I’d be there, and after I met and ex’s friend who showed me around the city for 3 hours and got drunk with me, left my ass to chill in the city from 1 in the morning by myself. So, now imagine this. I’m there, drunk, dressed pretty nice in a pea-coat and black buttoned shirt and jeans, without a place to go at 1 am. My plane leaves at 7:30 in the morn and the subway station is closed till 5. I walk around admiring the city, but after 20 minutes of that, I get bored as fuck and not to mention extremely tired. The bottle of wine really went straight to my head and I had nothing to do but to park on a bench and try to get some sleep till the subway opened up. Read the rest of this entry »

General Advice »

[30 Oct 2009 | 2 Comments | ]

Wow I found this funny ass sound clip left from a guy who picked up a woman in the streets of Toronto (yes, my home town). Basically the story goes like this: a girl was out with friends having drinks on King St.  This guy approaches her and won’t leave her alone -saying how cute she is. She finally gives in  and hands the guy her business card to get rid of him. The attached  is an MP3 file of not one, but TWO voicemails this guy left. This goes down  in the history books – especially the second voice mail. 
After hearing them you can clearly see why she didn’t call him back – instead  she called in to the Z103.5 morning show & had them play this on the air.

Go on and check out the the link to his voice mails then come back and leave you comment: http://melodymaker.posterous.com/the-reason-some-girls-stay-single-very-funny

This was just hilarious to me and it’s a BIG FAIL! Do not try this at home, kids.

Relationship Tips »

[28 Oct 2009 | 6 Comments | ]

Hey Robby,
This is a long one … ha ha. Well Im currently in a relationship with this
guy for about 3 years and during these years we have our ups and downs. Now
it’s gotten to a point that I feel numb towards us and him …
About seven months ago I have started a relationship with an old friend
that showed sexual interest towards me. It all started with flirting then
leading into something more … I have been honest with my current boyfriend
of my feelings and is aware of the other individual.
My concern is this… even on a break from the bf, i feel that I have
develop some feelings for the other individual…and I also expressed my
concerns to him about me getting attached and surprising so he seem like he
didn’t mind. In fact was like you might not be the only one…lol
I feel that mix signals are being sent…ex: Asking questions if I would
date him or if I like him … I make the conscious effort of not contacting
him I find that this confusion is eating me up inside. In a perfect world I
wish he would tell me he wants something more. He just got out of a
relationship and said that he doesnt want to get into another one …
according to him this is what he told another girl that was interested in
him … so why the questions???
What’s your take on this matter?

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Dating »

[24 Oct 2009 | 21 Comments | ]

I’m not a disabled caterpillar and I’m not dying.

At least not at any more than any other healthy 24-year-old human.
 
So why do people treat my relationship status as something that must be fixed or treated?

“Any new guys in your life..?” – Friend
“Nah, not really.. kinda focusing on work and..” – Me
“Ahh.. well.. you should meet my friend James! He’s great.. he likes to drink and stuff…” – Friend

Welcome to my life.

I’ve been on the dating scene for over two years now. And during that time, I have: Read the rest of this entry »