Hey Robby, I’ve been reading your blog for a while, and I’ve got to say,
your advice on women have worked, so far.
I made out with a friend I wanted to kiss for a while, and that was good
fun for a while, nothing serious, so thanks again for that!
Now onto the real problem. I’ve had this other friend for a long time, like
5 years or something. She’s always been great to me. When we met I was
starting a relationship that would last for a bit less than 4 years. At
around the two year mark, my girlfriend left town but we kept seeing each
other, long distance style, until the love faded and each went their way.
This friend was always there for me when I needed it -long distance can be
tough- and we used to drink beer, watch movies together, the usual. I knew
there was sexual attraction there, we’d talked about it, but we never acted
on it out of respect for each other’s relationships. I don’t like cheating.
When I broke up with my girlfriend, after a while of one night stands and
whatnot, I decided this friend would be my next target: she’s smart, she’s
beautiful, she’s successful… I’ve always had a thing for her, and
apparently she did too, for me.
The problem is she’s in a relationship, so I worked on it for a while and
finally one day made my move and we kissed. Now, I know she’s not the slutty
type, she actually respects relationships, so I knew this was a big
exception. Her current relationship is pretty shitty, he doesn’t respect her
the way he should, he’s a dick in the bad sense, and she knows this. As a
friend I always wanted her to be happy, and now I want to make her happy,
but how the hell do I go about doing that? I read your article on winning
her over but I don’t think it applies in this case, as I’ve known her for a
I just want my chance of doing what this asshole isn’t doing.
It’s weird that I’m asking for advice on the internet, I’ve never done this
but I think you’ve got your shit sorted, and so far your advice has worked
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