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[8 Aug 2009 | 5 Comments | ]

I was surfing the net and ended up looking through some Dating Q & A on Askmen.com. If you haven’t heard about it, well it’s a great website for male advice that gets millions of hits per month. It’s not as personal as my blog but it does have a lot more content. Anywho, I was reading a question that some 28 year old virgin named Al had asked to Donald Zimmer (AskMen’s Dating expert) and not to sound like a hater but I think that Zimmer did not do a sufficient job in answering the man’s question at all. The question went as follows:

 I’m a month away from turning 28 and I’m still a virgin in every sense of the word. The most I’ve ever done is made out and even that was a decade ago. I never had intercourse and have never given or received oral sex. Is it too late to lose my virginity or even meet that special someone?

Al

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[6 Aug 2009 | 3 Comments | ]

Is there such thing as bad publicity? Some say there is, others say there’s no such thing. I personally believe the latter. If you’re making news for any reason what so ever, you can make money off of it. Stirring up controversy always makes people want to get in on the action and see or hear what everyone is talking about. If you can make peoples’ jaws drop or look at you with utter shock, not believing that you actually did that or said that or even had the mental capability to think it, you gain popularity. Your popularity can come from something good you’re doing or something bad, but either way there’s money to be made in it. I’m not advocating that you go kill thirty people and get on the six o’clock news, because that would just get you arrested, but if you can think of doing something that will raise your popularity yet keep you from going to jail or getting killed then you gain the ability to have people actually listen to what you say. For example, though Mike Tyson was a great fighter, Don King wasn’t making most of his money thanks to Tyson’s knockout capabilities, he was making money off Tyson’s ability to awe people. The speeches Iron Mike gave, the ridiculous things he said, the fact that he bit Hollyfield’s ear during a fight, his eccentric behaviour, and his overall care free ways of saying or doing whatever he wanted without holding anything back was what brought him such fame and fortune. Sure, Mike blew all his money away but that’s besides the point. The point is, you can use your flamboyant personality to get attention, sum up popularity, and make money from it. Read the rest of this entry »

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[4 Aug 2009 | 5 Comments | ]

Hey Robby, I’ve been reading your blog for a while, and I’ve got to say,
your advice on women have worked, so far.
I made out with a friend I wanted to kiss for a while, and that was good
fun for a while, nothing serious, so thanks again for that!

Now onto the real problem. I’ve had this other friend for a long time, like
5 years or something. She’s always been great to me. When we met I was
starting a relationship that would last for a bit less than 4 years. At
around the two year mark, my girlfriend left town but we kept seeing each
other, long distance style, until the love faded and each went their way.
This friend was always there for me when I needed it -long distance can be
tough- and we used to drink beer, watch movies together, the usual. I knew
there was sexual attraction there, we’d talked about it, but we never acted
on it out of respect for each other’s relationships. I don’t like cheating.
When I broke up with my girlfriend, after a while of one night stands and
whatnot, I decided this friend would be my next target: she’s smart, she’s
beautiful, she’s successful… I’ve always had a thing for her, and
apparently she did too, for me.
The problem is she’s in a relationship, so I worked on it for a while and
finally one day made my move and we kissed. Now, I know she’s not the slutty
type, she actually respects relationships, so I knew this was a big
exception. Her current relationship is pretty shitty, he doesn’t respect her
the way he should, he’s a dick in the bad sense, and she knows this. As a
friend I always wanted her to be happy, and now I want to make her happy,
but how the hell do I go about doing that? I read your article on winning
her over but I don’t think it applies in this case, as I’ve known her for a
while.
I just want my chance of doing what this asshole isn’t doing.

It’s weird that I’m asking for advice on the internet, I’ve never done this
but I think you’ve got your shit sorted, and so far your advice has worked
great!
Thanks mate. Read the rest of this entry »

General Advice »

[3 Aug 2009 | 7 Comments | ]

What does every man need in his facial hair grooming kit? Well the essentials should always be with him if he’s going on vacation or a business trip. I’m getting ready for my trip to Amsterdam and was preparing the things I’ll need on my trip when I decided to organize and pack my grooming essentials.

Manual Shaver

When I use a shaver, I prefer the practical non-electric shaver. I use the Gillette Fusion manual shaver because instead of going over the same spot five or six times, the Fusion does the job in one shave thanks to its five blades. I love to make facial hair designs and am almost never completely clean shaved, so the beauty about the Fusion is that it has a single blade on the reverse side that I use to make distinct designs.  The manual shavers work well and aren’t too pricey. Read the rest of this entry »

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[31 Jul 2009 | 3 Comments | ]

90% of all communication is non verbal. It is mostly body language and the tone in which you say something. So that means whenever we are talking to a person, it isn’t so much what we say as much as it is how we say it and the movements we make while saying it. And if practised correctly, the movements (ie: talking with your hands) we make, and the way we say things can be used in our advantage in picking up women. Connecting with women and making them find you attractive isn’t too difficult. For women, attraction usually isn’t even in the way you look as much as it in how you handle yourself. So if you learn to communicate with her properly then it’s as if there is this “On” switch that lights up inside her mind which makes her like you and want to connect back. Being confident, concise, and captivating is just the first part in grabbing a woman’s attention. The next part is communicating with her and that’s where some men get stumped. So I’ve devised a few things for you to focus on when trying to connect with a woman.

Don’t Be Afraid to Make Contact

When you first meet a girl you have to realize that she’s just as (and at times even more) nervous as you, so what you must do is make sure to make her feel comfortable. A great way to do this is make slight physical contact throughout your conversation. Read the rest of this entry »

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[29 Jul 2009 | 2 Comments | ]

Sometimes people need to really relax about their problems and cheer the fuck up. You’re alive, life is good, everything could be a lot worse. So what’s missing? What’s missing is to occasionally enjoy that one life you’ve got. Whenever I go out, I call out two of my mates to come out with me. Is it because I only have two mates? No. I have around five close friends, but the fact is I know that the rest of them either won’t come out or will take a hell of a lot of time persuading to come out. The one that does come out though is willing to do anything anytime. I can call him to come to a strip club for beers at noon and he won’t think twice. The other mates I don’t even ask if they want to come out because they always have some lame excuse to not enjoy their time out. This doesn’t mean they’re not great mates, it just means they need to read this post and really follow what the title says: Cheer up, chill out, and have a fucking good time. Read the rest of this entry »

Hooking Up »

[27 Jul 2009 | One Comment | ]

If you get a girl’s number on friday night, how long do you think you should wait before calling her without seeming desperate or completely not interested? If you want you may give justification for you poll vote in the comment section.

You got her number on Friday. When should you call her?

  • Next Day (Saturday) (33%, 29 Votes)
  • 2 Days (Sunday) (26%, 23 Votes)
  • One of the weekdays (25%, 22 Votes)
  • Next Weekend (16%, 14 Votes)

Total Voters: 88

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Cheers!