Hooking Up »

[8 May 2009 | 8 Comments | ]

Hey Robby, I think I got a question and a topic for a new post! Me and my girlfriend are looking for a fuck-buddy for occasional threesome. How can I find one? Thanks in advance!

Now in this post I’ll be assuming that you’re looking for another female fuck-buddy to add to your occasional threesome.

Where to Look for a 3rd Member

There are websites out there like Craigslist where you’ll definitely find someone who will be interested in a threesome. You can find women, men, trannies, or any other type of person you want on that site (not that I’ve searched for trannies…). Anywho, so that’s one option you may want to look into. Read the rest of this entry »

Hooking Up »

[7 May 2009 | 4 Comments | ]

If there’s one thing that separates the boys from the men in the dating game, it’s the fear factor. Boys talk while the men act. If you really want to succeed in obtaining many numbers or getting better at picking girls up, you must get out there and work at it. It’s like the saying goes, a picture is worth a thousand words. You can read and read and read this blog or any other book on the artistry of pick-up, but if you don’t actually go out there and try it then you will never actually see its true colors. Today I write a call-to-action post so that all of you who have either read my dating posts, have asked questions, or downloaded my free ebook, now you can go out there and separate yourself from the boys. Do not hide from the brute reality of things. The fact is, you might get rejected. Rejection is nothing to fear or get yourself down about. I’ve been rejected countless amounts of times. Hell, I was rejected from getting a number just yesterday, but who cares, it’s not the ones that got away you’ll be remembering in the years to come, it’s the ones you haven’t tried and missed out on your opportunity to approach that may haunt you. Read the rest of this entry »

Reviews »

[2 May 2009 | 5 Comments | ]

Update: I was going through my archives and saw this post that I wrote in the first month of this blog and since it didn’t get too much recognition then, I wanted to repost it noticing one funny thing. The part where I describe The Rum Diary’s character fleeing ‘himself’ made me think (for some reason?) of my own trip to Amsterdam that will be happening in August. Well, enjoy!

“If you’re going to be crazy, you have to get paid for it or else you’re going to be locked up.” A man I admire said that. You probably know him as Raoul Duke from Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, or if you’re a true fan you know him as the man, the legend, the inventor of Gonzo Journalism, Hunter Stockton Thompson. He’s lived the life that most men dream of but don’t have the balls to lead. Sure, some may say he lived a child’s dream and he never really grewup, but I ask you this, “Who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?” If you claim the latter, I do not blame nor will ever understand your mentality, but if you’re courageous enough to understand and embrace a lifestyle of braving the storm and truly living, then I salute and tip my hat off to you.I wish I could say I’ve seen the latest bio about him called Gonzo: The Life and Work of Dr. HST but in fact I was kicked out of the theatre half way through the flick. Those fucking manky bastard security folks couldn’t take two couples and a friend drinking, smoking, rendezvousing, and having fun without being twats about it. Read the rest of this entry »

Dating »

[30 Apr 2009 | 18 Comments | ]

Today’s answer will be directed for the females since it’s a question by a female, but that doesn’t mean that men can’t learn a thing or two either by discovering a few things women wonder about men.

I enjoy coming to your site. I especially enjoy reading your posts regarding relationships. A future post suggestion I have is something along the lines of “men leading women on..” I am curious as to see your take on the situation.


A man could be leading a woman on either intentionally or unintentionally. Read the rest of this entry »

Breaking Up »

[27 Apr 2009 | 10 Comments | ]

A fellow reader named Crazy Oldie made a good point in a comment he left on “How to Find a Fuck-Buddy” that really made me want to add a follow up post to breaking up with your girlfriend. I have previously written a post called “Break-Up with Benefits” but today I want to elaborate on that subject and show different scenarios and how to avoid the entire problematic process of a bad break-up. In his comment, Crazy Oldie said:

“I have had girls that I hooked up with on the side cry, throw shit at me, even stalk me because towards the end, some sort of fuse went off in their brain where there forgot what the initial arrangement was.”

And that really made me think, how would someone really deal with this situation… or essentially any situation where the man feels like he needs to break-up with his woman, no matter if he’s still into her or not, just knowing that breaking-up is unavoidable in his desparate situation. Read the rest of this entry »

Friends with Benefits »

[23 Apr 2009 | 223 Comments | ]

I noticed that a lot of people were entering my site through searches such as “How to find a fuck-buddy” and the like, and since I don’t really explain how to do that, but only explained the benefits of fuck-buddies in a post entitled Fuck Buddy VS Girlfriend so in this post I wanted to do just that. I’ve noticed that the best type of women to get as fuck-buddies are the professional career women. They’re usually too busy for a relationship and have too much work-related stress to not want sexual relief. That’s where you come in. These women are easy to spot, yet not so easy to approach. You usually wouldn’t find them at bars, but if you ask around there’s probably a couple of lounges or clubs that attract just those kinds of women, looking for being picked up by men that don’t want anything more than the occasional fuck. Read the rest of this entry »

Miscellaneous »

[15 Apr 2009 | 14 Comments | ]

In a previous post entitled Fuck Buddy vs Girlfriend, I weighed the pros and cons of having both and even though I personally would rather have a Fuck Buddy at this point in my life than a Girlfriend, I decided to take a poll to see how my readers felt on the subject. The results follow.


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