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[3 Sep 2011 | No Comment | ]

Hello all!

I’ve been rather busy the past few months, but now I’m here and I’d like to unveil a new website I have been working on. As this blog grew, I noticed there was no place for readers to have an outlet where they could meet like-minded individuals and get to know others who are interested in starting “friend with benefits” relationships. I have had to answer many questions concerning “FWB” and now I have created a Social Network where you can hook up with others that find the FWB relationship very appealing.
I have been receiving copious amounts of emails and comments where people openly give out their phone numbers, emails, and addresses, which I found quite dangerous. So instead, I have constructed a network where you can share and meet and post photos of yourselves to find friends with benefits near you. Go out and explore. The website is www.eeZeeMeet.com! Sign up using your Facebook account or by just going through a short sign up process. Leave some feedback and enjoy!!

eeZee Meet

Dating »

[3 Sep 2011 | One Comment | ]

I am in a big dilemma with a man that I work with, in fact he is my manager
who is also 10 years my senior and I am 21. I guess to sum it up I will say
that over the past year we have been working together, he has really put his
guard down to me because the chemistry between us is off the charts! and I
also have learned to bring him out of his formal, proper persona that he has
at work. This guy has shown and done many things that have struck me like
lightning that DING he has fallen for me: He always tells me to be open with
him and vice versa and encourages me to talk about my life,

our co workers always tell us we act like an old married couple because we
tease each other and flirt so much, and finally he has gotten to the point where he has told me that he gets
jealous when I talk about other “potential interests” …Good thing about
this is this man literally sweeps me off my feet.

Now the problem:
One night recently, after work we both decide to stay behind and smoke a few
cigarettes with each other and just chill outside in the parking lot. We
talked for about an hour and a half, when he finally asks me to go to a
winery with him. I accepted because
A) I am quitting my job
B)I like him
C)I like him

Now the question finally, =) is I am really bummed out because he has a
girlfriend who he has been with for a year and have known each other for 6
yrs,both live together. Should I just take the risk and have a potentially
passionate romance or should I run, and far away?

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Friends with Benefits, Relationship Tips »

[26 Aug 2011 | No Comment | ]

hello..my name is jaqueline…please help me figure out what to do cuz im
lost..the problem is that i was with this guy for about a month and a half
and everything was ok but then our attitudes started to crash whenever we
would text but when we would meet & be together it would be great, but
eventually he got tired of our attitudes clashing and he and I broke it
off & said his feelings had changed but ..he said maybe later we would get
back together but meanwhile was ok with being just friends. So he didn’t want
to meet at first but then he gave in & we started seeing each other again at
the park but sometimes also at my house and when he would come over i would
stay far away but he would get close2me and kiss me. We would have sex and he
would still act like a bf with me but then he got a gf and i got mad. We
ended it really bad cuz we cussed each other out & I told him he wasn’t worth
it & we told each other a lot of hurtful things. So i stopped talking to him on
January & didn’t know nothing bout each other till April when I texted him & he
replied hey:)and he said he was single again and it sounded like he was
happy to hear from me & we talked again & he said that we should hang out
sometime so we have but he said he wants to stay single & to be fuck buddies and i
said yes but its hard cus i really loved him a lot & I still do a lot & it hurts
when he comes over & i see him cuz i wish i could tell him how much i still love
him but i cant :/ when we met again after time he never brought up us cussing
each other out & he just hugged me really tight for a long while & asked how have i
been.. and i just met him today an hour ago but i feel like crying cuz it
just hurts alot :( he only texts me to say he is not gonna work
wednesday & wants to meet up & dirty texts & a lil conversation but not much :/ but
lately he puts happy faces when he says hey or something else so i thought
maybe its good but i don’t wanna get my hopes up. And today when we met he
was nicer with me cus he would play around with me & would laugh & he would
bring up a conversation & he kissed me & held me like when we were
together & he held my hand and instead of doing it in the place we usually
do it he asked me where i wanted 2 & i said in my room so he took me to the
room holding my hand and he smiled a lot & seemed like he was actually
happy & a lot of memories came back and then he lay down on my bed & i lay
down next to him & I hugged him & he hugged me back & we rested our heads together
cuddling close4a while and he didnt say anything he was just closing his
eyes resting then we went to the living room&he sat on the sofa across the
room&i sat on the sofa on the other side&he was like why so far away??and i
was like where do u want me to be?? and he said get over here which was next2him
so i sat next2him& we just lay our heads together then he put his arm
around me&we stayed like that watching a movie close2eachother and
talking..then i just poked him&he poked me back&he called me dork like we
used2call eachother when we were together&then he pretended2kiss me but then
pulled away like before also&i was like fine and turned away&he was like
awww nah&got me and kissed me on my cheek like2times like being sweet&then
he kissed my lips and we just stayed watching the movie together but then he
had2go&he got all his stuff&said he had2go&kissed me and opened the door&was
leaving all ready was like by the next house&i told him if i could hug him&he
was like umm hahaha yeah so he hugged me&left…so thats my story
sorry4making it so long..wat do you think about my situation?? i love him
but idk if he still has feelings4me& i dont wanna get my hopes up cuz it
hurts enough already. I want him back but it just seems2hard or
impossible2get him back but im hurting every time i c him&he doesnt know i
just cry sometimes after he leaves. What do you think i should do?? do u
think he still has feelings for me or do i just give up? please i need your help

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Friends with Benefits »

[9 Aug 2011 | One Comment | ]

Hi Robby G! I have a friend and I like him so much and he doesn’t have an idea about it. We’ve been friends for quite a long time now. I have a boyfriend and I really try the hardest just to ignore my feelings to my friend. Well, it’s not that I want him to be my boyfriend or I’m madly in love with him, it’s just that I really like him. I love the way he carries himself, so cute. He is single and he hooks up with a lot of girls. He’s having the time of his life I must say. We went to a bar one night. Got drunk and really had fun. My boyfriend left because we had a fight. I was just shocked, the next thing I knew was we were kissing. On the way home we acted as if nothing happened. We had sex and agreed that it was just a mistake and sworn that we would never do it again. But it happened so many times. The weird thing is, I know he would be the last person to like me because he used to tease me around and be the meanest person to me. What does it mean? Is he really doing it for lust? Can you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to?
When he gets drunk, he calls me up and asks me to meet him but I would play hard-to-get to feel a little thrill. The last time he called and asked me to meet him, I told him to pick me up and he did!! Is he really in need for a booty call that I am his last option or I am the only one he loves doing it with since he told me he does so I’m his only option. And do you really kiss your fuck buddy goodbye? because he does. I just can’t figure out if he likes me or not. That’s what I only need to know. Please help me :)

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Hooking Up »

[1 Aug 2011 | One Comment | ]

This is a guest post by Rob Turner from Dating Sites.

Online dating has quickly become a great way of creating meaningful and compatible relationships, however, the popularity of online dating has meant that it is important to improve your profiles visibility to ensure that you enjoy successful online dating. This simple guide will reveal some of the easy ways every dating site user can be successful in online dating.

Firstly, it is essential to decide on the type of online service that will better suits your needs and to choose a dating site that accurately reflects this. There are four main types of services available, general online dating services, relationship service, socialising services and niche services. Read the rest of this entry »

Relationship Tips »

[29 Jul 2011 | No Comment | ]

The right time to move in with a girl can vary depending on the type of person you are and how things have been going in the relationship. I personally would only move in if I was seriously considering marrying the woman and then to test how family life would feel with her, I would see if she was interested in moving in before I’d ask her to be my bride. Now, there are times however, that you may feel like you’d like to feel closer to a woman and to simply spend more time with her. Before I would decide to move in with her, I would take a couple of precautions. What usually happens when you move in with a woman is that you will have to change somethings about your lifestyle. For instance, you will have to be much more considerate about grocery shopping, the cleanliness of the place, sleeping habits, and everything else that comes with living with another person. So my advice, and I cannot stress this enough, is before you move all of your stuff in and start calling each others’ things “our” rather than “my” you must try to sleep over for a few days and spend time together as if you were moved in. If she doesn’t have her own place then have her stay at your place for a few nights. Read the rest of this entry »

Friends with Benefits »

[7 Jul 2011 | No Comment | ]

hey Rob

Love the advice you give. I too have a fuck-buddy relationship. I really
like this guy alot and i think i intitially blew my chances of having a
relationship with him…as it was my idea to have a fuck-buddy relationship.
anyway the situation now is that i have feelings for him and dont know if i
should tell him how i feel. i dont want to lose him in anyway, but also dont
want to lose the potential of having a full on relationship. the last time
we hooked up he told me about his ex and why they broke up and why it is so
hard for him to have a relationship and that he wont go out looking for
love, it has to come find him… is that his way of telling me that he’s
ready for a relationship??? for the past 18months that we’ve been seeing
each other i always sleep over at his place and he leaves for work and i let
myself out, so obviously he trusts me!? what is your view on this??? oh we
never used to kiss during the sex and the last time we actually did…

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