Should I Expect his Call?
I’m new to being a fuck buddy so I need your advice.
I met a married man – I’m married also – with whom I have NSA, FB sex. His
schedule is much busier than mine, so I told him to just call whenever he
had time to get together.
He lives about 40 miles from me and I go to him because he doesn’t have time
I’ve seen him a couple of times and would like to see him again. I at least
understand that there are no set time limits – could be a week, could be 6
months, but I’m wondering… in your experience, do you think he’ll be back?
I do, but I’m not a man and I’ve never done this before. He gets free sex
whenever he calls and I come to him. I think he should pinch himself to make
sure he’s awake!
So I guess if I had to boil it down to a question, it would be: I know I may
never hear from him again, but just because a long time goes by doesn’t mean
I won’t, yes?
It really depends on a few elements. Essentially you most likely will hear from him and just because he doesn’t contact you often doesn’t mean that he enjoys the fuck buddy relationship you share. It’s just he and you are both married and he knows that he cannot reach out to you too often just so neither of you get too attached, because that can lead to obvious problems. Also, you have to take into consideration that he is busy and he has priorities and certain things to look out for to keep everything hidden and so no one gets suspicious.
To answer your question though, then I would say that simply because of the complications of your relationship (both married, distance, etc) it may take time for him to reach out and want to see you again, but of course that doesn’t mean that it will never happen. Just my advice would be to not hold your breath and look at the situation in a very logical fashion. Though his situation may seem unreal in the sense that a woman is willing to travel to his place to sleep with him with no strings attached while he is still married, you must not think that it is as good as it seems. He definitely has things on his mind that are stressful and that he himself is most likely worried that this situation can go from being the greatest thing to one of the worst things. It is crucial that he understands that there is no chance between the two of you for anything serious and neither of you are willing to leave their partners for each other, unless of course you talk about it and are in fact willing to make that leap. Either way though, do not think too much of it and I think you’ll hear from him when he is ready, otherwise if you really want then you can call him and see how he responds to it. If he is cold and distant or tells you he will call you back and doesn’t then he most likely wants to quit what you have and split on good terms, but if he’s happy to hear from you then he will want to see you again.
Try out by calling and picking up on any hints and then you’ll see what his intentions are. Or you can just wait and see if he calls, but just don’t think about it too much.