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Never Stress Over A Female

17 December 2008 5 Comments

flirtingHave you ever been on a date with a girl and you’re having a good time, laughing, drinking, having fun, and then sometime into the date some random guy you’ve never seen comes up to her and starts talking with her. It’s obviously someone she knows, maybe an old buddy of hers, but to you he’s a nobody, to you it just seems like some bastard is trying to flirt with her right in front of you. That happened to me once before. Me and this girl were going on a ship-ride date. Sounds fancy, don’t it? Well it was like a big party on a boat that fit around 600 people, and while we were heading on board, she bumped into some two guys that she knew. I didn’t give a shite about these guys, but they had the balls to start trying to flirt and chop her right in front of me. That obviously pissed me off, but let’s get something straight, I’m not a type of guy that gets protective over his woman or his date. I give my date enough space to go ahead and do anything she wants. She can go dance with another guy, she can flirt with another guy, she can even cheat on me, but watch what happens when she does that. I find that if I give my woman enough freedom, then everything she does is sort of like a test to see how faithful she really is. If she fucks up once then it’s over, no three strike rule applies. I find that if I control her too much or if I’m over-protective of her, then I’m not allowing her to act in her primal nature and I find that as a type of deception.

cheating womanWell anywho, one of those two guys kept trying to flirt with her, and sometime passed until she actually walked away from him and came over back to me at the bar. You also have to understand that this was a first date, so I didn’t have any rights over her. If this was officially my “girlfriend” or my woman, then I had all the rights to come in there and put my hand around her waist and kiss her right in front of that chump. But me doing that would just show that I had lost my nerve and that him talking to her had actually gotten to me. Now I’m too smooth to show any care for their flirting. Honestly, if she really wants, she can even go ahead and keep going with that guy throughout the night, but she better not expect me to wait up too long, because I’d be on that boat hitting on other girls. Again to the golden rule: There’s a thousand you’s, there’s only one of me. Don’t expect a player of the game to care about only one woman, because there are always thousands of better ones out there that a player can get.

What I wanted you to get out of this post is that you should never stress over a girl. If she’s dumb enough to cheat on you or even flirt with a next man then she’s not worth pursuing any further. If anything, you starting to ignore her would just go to your advantage and will make her want you even more. And if it doesn’t, then fuck it. Close this file and move on to a next mission.


  • Karolina said:

    Molodec, this was an insightful post and very true. I agree with the over-protectiveness because if you suffocate a person, they may rebel against you (like a teenager against his parents).

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  • Jibbs said:

    Smoothly done. Nice, I like it a lot. Respect, Robby G.

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  • Kisha said:

    Nicely stated. I think you covered just about everything that needed to be covered. I a espeically like the remark about being to over protective, we woman don’t like that. It just makes us want to pull away that much more.

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  • Tim said:

    Haha interesting article. Thanks for dropping by my blog. I like your blog as well. Very High Quality content!

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  • Robby G (author) said:

    @Tim Thanks. Anytime mate. If you’d like you can follow me at http://twitter.com/Robby_G13.


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