Comments on: The Fuck Buddy Rep

By: Robby G

Robby G — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 13:33:19 +0000

@OnOne: Sounds to me like a pure fuck buddy relationship. Even though you guys hangout together doesn’t necesserily mean that you’re dating. In your case you’re strictly friends with benefits. If he’s not locking you into a relationship where it’s clear that you can’t see other people, and you’re doing the same thing towards him then it’s all fine and simple and there’s that nice sexual encounter once in a while. The lifestyle differences has a big impact on the status of your relationship, but while you’re studying and partying, have fun and enjoy your freedom.
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By: OnONE

OnONE — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:07:03 +0000

OnONE said:
I have been good friends with this guy for a while – never really took notice of him much till right before I moved away. Was a really sweet guy the more I got to know him so I developed the biggest crush on him, but on the side, I’ve had my boyfriend of 3 years so never did anything with the other guy. Until we met up again months later he just happened to be in town and we screwed. My boyfriend was a rollercoaster ass hole that I had already been tired of anyway but stayed with to see further how we’d work out but once I got with the other dude I broke up with my boyfriend. NOW we’re in the fuck buddy status – both single and like it that way – he has a job where he has to travel around a lot and I’ll invite him certain times of the year to hang out in random parts of the country and let him know that doing him dirty is part of the plans.
SO I feel like we’re a little more than fuck buddies since we still talk about hanging out and havin fun, but the whole traveling around on the job for him and me being busy partyin and goin to school has left us just like that. Fuck buddies – I’ve never been in this kind of ‘relationship’ before – Feedback Please! Just need reassurance that maybe it’s just is what it is.

By: Carla

Carla — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 10:25:13 +0000

I like this answer a lot and think you hit the nail on the head. High school reputation is so important until you finally go to college or off to work. Just have fun while you’re young. The guy is a virgin and won’t be too quick to leave you after you sleep together because he doesn’t have enough experience to know for certain that he can get other girls yet. He may actually get too clingy, that’s the only problem I see with virgins.