You’re Just a Fuck-Buddy. Period.
Readers have been asking how to make sure a fuck buddy doesn’t decide to become anything more than just a fuck buddy. What’s the best way to keep your fuck buddy in her position without hurting her feelings and by still continuing to keep her on call whenever you’re feeling lonely? When getting into a fuck buddy relationship you both need to know that it’s nothing serious and that you can go out with other women anytime you want without her permission. You’re both there for each other to satisfy each other’s needs without the entire process of dating. It’s that simple. So why do so many men have difficulty in keeping their fuck buddy just a fuck buddy? Well, the answer is that they end up showing too much emotion. Keep yourself untied from her and she won’t want anything more than just a fuck buddy. I personally follow a strict code when it comes to fuck buddies, because it is extremely easy to get warped into a relationship without even knowing it. The rules are simple and to the point.
Call for One Thing Only
Call your fuck buddy when you need a fuck. That’s it. She had to know that you’re using her. The beauty about having a fuck buddy is she doesn’t see it as usage, because she’s using you right back for the same thing. So it’s not really usage, it’s a mutual contract where both parties are satisfied with using each other strictly for sex. Calling her for anything more than sex can either drive her away because she may think you want something more than just sex, or it may make her feel like you want to take things further and it will get her to tie you down into a relationship.
Let Her Know if You Found a Date
I called a fuck buddy once to get together for some sex and she told me she couldn’t because she found some guy she really liked and didn’t want to ruin anything between them because he may get the wrong idea if she’s fucking me on the side. I was extremely cool with it and said I completely understand and told her to call me if things don’t work out between them, yet I wished her all the best luck. If I would have found some girl I was very interested in and didn’t want everything going to hell because some women do not find it rational for a guy to have a girlfriend and a fuck buddy at the same time, then I would just as easily told my fuck buddy that I couldn’t see her anymore and we should just remain “friends”. And we all know being friends with a fuck buddy should not be attempted. If you’ve gone from friend to fuck buddy and are thinking about going back to just friends, I advise against it. So this rule just keeps her in check that she’s just a fuck buddy and shouldn’t get any ideas that you are restricted to only “seeing” her.
Don’t Underestimate the Power of Sex
Never stop looking for other girls to add onto your call list… unless of course you don’t have the time for it. However, if you don’t have the time for other girls you should make sure you’re not spending all your time calling your fuck buddy to score another hit, because in fact fucking without strings attached can become an addiction. Be careful not to get too involved in spending every day calling her because you’re feeling lonely. Go out and meet other women and try to broaden your choice. Constantly keep your eyes peeled for new opportunities to get other women into bed, because being free is what the whole point of having a fuck buddy is. And if you get yourself tied down to the sex with no strings attached, then you lose your freedom and develop a relationship with the constant sex.
Follow these rules and you should have no problem in keeping your fuck buddy a fuck buddy. Period.