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You’re Just a Fuck-Buddy. Period.

23 June 2009 10 Comments

Readers have been asking how to make sure a fuck buddy doesn’t decide to become anything more than just a fuck buddy. What’s the best way to keep your fuck buddy in her position without hurting her feelings and by still continuing to keep her on call whenever you’re feeling lonely? When getting into a fuck buddy relationship you both need to know that it’s nothing serious and that you can go out with other women anytime you want without her permission. You’re both there for each other to satisfy each other’s needs without the entire process of dating. It’s that simple. So why do so many men have difficulty in keeping their fuck buddy just a fuck buddy? Well, the answer is that they end up showing too much emotion. Keep yourself untied from her and she won’t want anything more than just a fuck buddy. I personally follow a strict code when it comes to fuck buddies, because it is extremely easy to get warped into a relationship without even knowing it. The rules are simple and to the point.

Call for One Thing Only

Call your fuck buddy when you need a fuck. That’s it. She had to know that you’re using her. The beauty about having a fuck buddy is she doesn’t see it as usage, because she’s using you right back for the same thing. So it’s not really usage, it’s a mutual contract where both parties are satisfied with using each other strictly for sex. Calling her for anything more than sex can either drive her away because she may think you want something more than just sex, or it may make her feel like you want to take things further and it will get her to tie you down into a relationship.

Let Her Know if You Found a Date

I called a fuck buddy once to get together for some sex and she told me she couldn’t because she found some guy she really liked and didn’t want to ruin anything between them because he may get the wrong idea if she’s fucking me on the side. I was extremely cool with it and said I completely understand and told her to call me if things don’t work out between them, yet I wished her all the best luck. If I would have found some girl I was very interested in and didn’t want everything going to hell because some women do not find it rational for a guy to have a girlfriend and a fuck buddy at the same time, then I would just as easily told my fuck buddy that I couldn’t see her anymore and we should just remain “friends”. And we all know being friends with a fuck buddy should not be attempted. If you’ve gone from friend to fuck buddy and are thinking about going back to just friends, I advise against it. So this rule just keeps her in check that she’s just a fuck buddy and shouldn’t get any ideas that you are restricted to only “seeing” her.

Don’t Underestimate the Power of Sex

Never stop looking for other girls to add onto your call list… unless of course you don’t have the time for it. However, if you don’t have the time for other girls you should make sure you’re not spending all your time calling your fuck buddy to score another hit, because in fact fucking without strings attached can become an addiction. Be careful not to get too involved in spending every day calling her because you’re feeling lonely. Go out and meet other women and try to broaden your choice. Constantly keep your eyes peeled for new opportunities to get other women into bed, because being free is what the whole point of having a fuck buddy is. And if you get yourself tied down to the sex with no strings attached, then you lose your freedom and develop a relationship with the constant sex.

Follow these rules and you should have no problem in keeping your fuck buddy a fuck buddy. Period.

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  • Sarah said:

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    Robby G Reply:

    @Sarah: Thanks and I really appreciate it. I post almost daily so stop by anytime. :)

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  • Malahov said:

    I like your posts on fuck buddies. Great and knowledgable stuff. Keep posting on the subject.

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  • Noi said:

    Men should not play games when it comes to being just fuck-buddies. They need to be strait up with what they want and be direct in their wants in the relationship whether it’s just sex or something more. Sex may sometimes feel like a trap for them but they need to know that the point of a fuck buddy is to have fun like you said.

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    Loved your latest post, by the way.

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    EatMeSushi Reply:

    Interesting post. I have had many FBs and I must say that most guys are very sweet and affectionate as well as up for regular sex, and usually always respected the boundaries of FB-ness.

    However, I found a couple of guys played games, as if they were dating me, when we had agreed from the beginning it was an FB arrangement. Has anyone else experienced their FB sending mixed messages/playing hard to get? I always associated this with dating and tbh never expected this with FBs – I mean, what’s the point?? One guy in particular was a texting obsessive and I think he got off more on sexy messages than actual sex!

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    Robby G Reply:

    @eatmesushi: Some guys just aren’t used to fuckbuddy relationships and don’t know what to do when they’re in one. It actually gets quite weird sometimes, because I’ve experienced this with womemn as well. What I do once I see that they start with the mixed messages and acting a little bit like we’re dating, I usually cut the whole thing off. I tell them we shouldn’t fuck around anymore and should stay just friends. But then I stop calling them as often and the friendship dies out with the sex. But I know where you’re coming from on this issue and I agree that some people are just not meant to be fuck-buddies because they don’t even understand the concept.

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  • Black_Beardie said:

    Hi!
    I enjoyed reading the fuck buddy posts and advice given. :) I have never had a fuck buddy and think I would like to give it a try. :)

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  • Starlight said:

    I will try to follow these tips. Somehow things never work out as easy as they look on paper though.
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    Robby G Reply:

    @Starlight: It’s never as easy as it looks on paper, but I do hope that it at least acts as the guide behind approaching the fuck buddy relationship.

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